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This post was last edited by cflt111 on 2018-6-22 at 10:32. 1. What others say to you or do to you can never determine who you are； What you say and do to others determines what kind of person you are. 2. We all understand big principles better and better, but it is still those irrational little emotions that determine most of our feelings of joy, anger, sadness, and happiness. 3. What time steals away are always the precious things that remain hidden from our sight. 4. Every present you hate has a past in which you didn’t try hard enough. 5. Being cruel and rude is different from being humorous; speaking without restraint is different from being honest; having no manners and being casual is different from each other; lacking judgment and being straightforward are different things as well. 6. If you don’t take the time to create the life you want, you will eventually have to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don’t want. 7. If one day, you have a argument with the person you love and you let them win, then what do they gain from that? What do you get? So what is this so-called loss? What have you lost again? What to lose? In fact, in many cases, disputes leave no winner or loser, yet they result in the loss of many relationships that should have been cherished. 8. If you don’t take the initiative, you’ll lose it; if you’re too proactive, she won’t cherish it. Such is human nature. http://www.qqssly.com/uploads/allimg/160613/1-16061315110T96.jpg 9. In the past, people treated you based on the status of your parents; in the future, people will treat your parents based on your status. 10. People feel exhausted because they often hesitate between persevering and giving up, unable to make a decision. 11. Growing up is the process of silencing tears. 12. It’s not by seeing hope that one persists, but by persisting that one sees hope. 13. Often, it’s not how good your ability to lie is, but rather the person who hears your lies and chooses to believe you. 14. Love and marriage are like collecting shells; don’t pick the biggest or most beautiful ones, but rather those you like and suit you best. And once you’ve found them, there’s no need to go back to the beach. 15. What is meant by maturity is becoming more able to accept reality, rather than becoming more realistic. 16. Growing up means finally realizing that the world might not be as wonderful as we imagined when we were children. The people we love and the things that matter to us may deceive us or leave us; we may lose those we cherish or suffer betrayal. Yet, we still accept all the unpleasantness we are unwilling to face and continue to live bravely. 17. Growth means forcing you to stand on your own, to stumble and get hurt, to become strong through those setbacks. 18. You’re unhappy because you don’t love yourself properly, and you often exhaust yourself for others. http://www.qqssly.com/uploads/allimg/160613/1-160613151139348.jpg 19. We yearn for distant places, but those same places are what other people find tedious. Perhaps only after experiencing life’s trials can one understand that what we have before us is what truly deserves to be cherished. The scenery is in the distance; it is life that lies nearby. 20. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, give it a thousand reasons to smile. 21. If you want to become a sun, start with dust ； If you want to become a great river, start with a drop of water ； If you want to become a hero who attracts worldwide attention, start as an ordinary, common person. Taking things step by step is always better than rushing; the realization of every idea comes through accumulation. 22. Complaining is the most meaningless thing. If the surrounding environment is truly unbearable, then work secretly to improve your skills and then break free from that circle. 23. The depth of your trust in a friend is not measured by whether you smile at them, but by whether you are willing to cry in front of them. 24. Follow the path you have chosen, not the easy one; only then can you become your true self. 25. If someone throws stones at you, do not throw them back; keep them as the foundation stones for building a tall tower. 26. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the rain. 27. In good times and bad, you’re not there by my side; who are you when there’s wealth and glory?