A Haiyou around 35 years old is here to register!
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In every sense, 35 is a landmark age in life. In terms of life, at this point one should generally get married, have children, and settle down ； As parents grow old and one reaches middle age, children generally move past the stage of playing and start to strive to study. The burden has increased, the responsibilities have increased. In the workplace, 35 is also a turning point. If you’re still hesitating about your direction at this point, something is definitely wrong. If development is good in the early stages, this should be the time when initial results begin to appear. It’s normal not to achieve anything, but at least one should be moving in the right direction. Because there isn’t much time left for you to make mistakes. Once this point is passed, it’s almost impossible to throw away the past and start over from scratch. For those who mature early, a sense of decline already exists at this time. No matter how energetic you are, if you remain immature at this point, it’s likely you won’t grow up in this life. A 35-year-old should occasionally throw in a few philosophical remarks infused with their own experiences in casual conversations; if they still behave like children, it indicates a lack of life experience. Of course, there are also those who like to pretend to be mature; their willpower has already weakened without any real experience, and they make decisions using clichés. Such people, lacking in conviction, are even less worthy of mention. To discard one’s youth too early inevitably leads to unhappiness and failure. 35 is like the midpoint of a line; when one reaches this age, it’s necessary to stop and look back and forth.
I want to stop, but time doesn’t allow it.
It’s still a few years before I turn 35, but doesn’t Huawei get rid of everyone who hasn’t reached the middle management level by then?
The expression is good; it’s time to draw conclusions. Some progress should have been made as well. Just like Yang Guo in The Legend of the Condor Heroes, at that age he created his own martial art style called the Heartbreaking Palm – really impressive.
One starts working at around 23 years old (slightly later for those with a master’s degree) and retires at 65. 65-23/2=21; shouldn’t the midpoint for us be around 40? :lol
I’m around 35 now
This post was last edited by lovelife1997 on 2019-4-26 at 10:44. 10 years ago, it was possible to afford a house with cash; gradually, it also became possible to afford a mid-range car with cash. (I’m afraid to borrow money from banks or my family; it’s more comfortable to use my own money). Later on, I met a partner; I was short on money and didn’t want to ask for help. We traveled, got married, and had children. Fortunately, my employer provided benefits such as reimbursement for the children’s medical expenses and a subsidy for only having one child, which helped to reduce our financial burden quite a bit. The tough economic times for individuals are long over now; my career has seen some improvement as well, and the countdown to purchasing a second home has begun. My partner also has a decent income. The child is healthy, and the parents are healthy. After work, I take my wife and children for a walk, or go with them to buy some things so we can stay at my grandparents’ place, have dinner there, visit the elders, and have some fun together. . Time passes quietly, and happiness arises from the little things.
This post was last edited by Nuts on 2019-6-3 at 14:24. Then just focus on working hard and meticulously
At the prime of life, there is some embarrassment, some fatigue, and some helplessness. But everyone must move forward bravely, because there is no way back!