In the next life, we will never meet again
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This is **Liang Jizhang, a well-known radio host. A letter written to his son in his final days of life; this letter quickly spread across various websites, and many fathers were deeply moved after reading it. This letter is not only inspiring to read for one’s son; it’s also suitable for everyone! It’s not long, but it contains the parents’ insights into life and their boundless love for their children; it’s truly touching! Please spread the word! My son: I am writing this memo for you based on three principles: (1) Life’s fortunes are unpredictable; no one knows how long they will live, so it’s better to clarify things early. (II) I am your father; if I don’t tell you, no one else will. (III) What is recorded in this memorandum are all the experiences I gained through painful failures, which can save you from taking many unnecessary detours in your growth.
Here are the things you should keep in mind throughout your life: (1) Don’t take too much offense to those who treat you badly. In your life, no one is obligated to be kind to you, except me and your mother. Those who are kind to you, you must cherish and be grateful for. (II) No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is essential. Understanding this, even if you lose everything you love in the world in the future, you should realize that it’s not a big deal. (III) Life is short; perhaps you are wasting it today, only to realize tomorrow that life has already slipped away from you. Therefore, the earlier you cherish life, the more days you will have to enjoy it. Rather than hoping for a long life, it’s better to enjoy it sooner. (IV) Love is merely a feeling, and this feeling changes over time and with one’s mood. If what you consider your favorite person leaves you, please wait patiently; let time do its work and allow your heart to settle down, and then your pain will gradually fade away. Do not overly idealize the beauty of love, nor exaggerate the sorrow of heartbreak. (5) Although many successful people have not received much education, it doesn’t mean that one can succeed without studying hard. The knowledge you acquire is the weapon you possess. One can start from scratch, but not without any tools – remember that!
(6) I won’t ask you to support me for the rest of my life, and likewise, I won’t support you for the rest of yours. When you grow up enough to be independent, my responsibility will be fulfilled. From now on, whether you take a bus or a Mercedes, eat shark fin or vermicelli, you are responsible for it yourself. (7) You can ask yourself to be honest, but you cannot require others to be honest as well ； You can ask yourself to be kind to others, but you can’t expect them to be kind to you as well ； The way you treat others does not mean that they will treat you in the same way; if you fail to understand this, it will only bring you unnecessary troubles. (8) I’ve bought Mark Six tickets for 26 years, yet I’m still poor and haven’t even won a third-prize award. This proves that if one wants to succeed, they must work hard; there is no such thing as a free lunch in this world. (9) Family bonds are only available once in life; no matter how long we spend together in this lifetime, you must cherish the time we have together. In the next life, whether we love each other or not, we will never meet again. This letter is not only inspiring to read for one’s son; it’s also suitable for everyone! It’s not long, but it contains the parents’ insights into life and their boundless love for their children; it’s truly touching!
I’ve finished reading it; it’s very touching and well-written
A will! They are all the words one most wishes to say, like lighthouses guiding the way forward. . .
Very skilled; it’s just someone else’s self-help nonsense, really
Great article, let’s share it! ! ! ! 11