I know the exhaustion that comes with life, and I understand the pain that arises from relationships
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1. I know the exhaustion that comes with life, and I understand the pain associated with emotions. The master said that some people smile not because they’re happy, but because they’ve cried; no one feels sorry for them. Some people aren’t good at expressing their feelings because the pain in their hearts goes unnoticed by others. With no one to support them behind them, they pretend to be strong; with no one waiting for them ahead, they pretend to be carefree. There are some words that can only be spoken to oneself, and there are some pains that are meant to be endured alone. https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/2FjM0tvNyFhGXxtbmSv2iaMrLyfBTdWkjFQtKf3DJ2CHxCIsLXaNmXH6nFu1rZxn63iaRGNedaHKc7eDCh9P2kUA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1 Sometimes I really want to kneel down and hug myself, who has no one to comfort me
You must walk the path on your own; only you can understand the hardships. How much suffering do you need to endure before realizing that not all love is cherished? How many tears do you need to shed before understanding that you are the most important person in the world? Others can offer you comfort and advice, but they can never know just how much pain you’re going through. Others can give you hugs and warmth, but they can never take on all your sufferings for you. If you fall, no one will help you get up; you have to rise on your own. If you cry, no one will comfort you; you have to wipe away your tears by yourself. No matter how much grievance or pain you feel, remember that it’s only you who can heal yourself in the end
3. Without anyone to care for you, you must be stronger and more determined. When a child falls and there’s no adult around, they don’t cry; instead, they get up on their own. The same is true with emotions: when someone shares your pain, it hurts even more; when no one understands your suffering, you become even more determined. As for those who have left, stop chasing after them. There’s no need to force yourself to act as if everything is fine. You should know that not all efforts lead to success, and not all sacrifices yield rewards. Relying on yourself allows you to face difficulties fearlessly; relying on others means you’ll always be afraid of hardships. One day, you’ll realize that those things that once caused you pain have long been left behind as you move forward. May, in the rest of your life, you not have to pretend to be happy, nor endure pain in silence. May you have someone to share your hardships with, but also the ability to bear them alone. May, despite going through storms, your heart remain filled with love
Some people laugh not because they are happy, but because they have cried and no one feels sorry for them