Mindset is the best asset

Be more open-minded. I once read a story about an old woman who had two daughters. The older daughter married a man who sold umbrellas, while the younger daughter married a man who sold straw hats. As soon as the weather turned sunny, the old woman would sigh and say, “With such a bright sun, it’s hard to sell umbrellas; my eldest daughter is surely having a tough time.” ” Whenever it rains, she thinks of her second daughter again: \"With such heavy rain, how can my second daughter sell her straw hat?\" ” So whether it was sunny or cloudy, the old lady always had a worried expression on her face. Later, a wise man heard the old woman’s worries and comforted her, saying, “You should be happy, old lady.” You see, on rainy days, the umbrellas made by your eldest daughter will sell well, while on sunny days, your second daughter’s straw hats will do very well in business. ” The old lady thought to herself, Yes, I won’t be sad anymore from now on. Many times, this is how we behave when faced with problems: we tend to get stuck in details and drive ourselves into a dead end. But in fact, with a different mindset, all problems can be solved easily. You can’t change the weather, but you can control your mood ； You can’t control the environment, but you can adjust your mindset ； You can’t extend the length of life, but you can expand its breadth. The character \"tai\" in \"mindset\" can be broken down to mean having a more open mind. If one can view things with openness, then wherever one looks, there will be only joy.

Stay optimistic. Rises and falls in life are common; good and bad times come one after another. When faced with hardship or misfortune, despair and depression are of no use; it’s better to smile and make peace with life. Don’t take things too seriously with others, because it’s not worth it; don’t be too strict with yourself, because you can’t afford to get hurt. One is the author of one’s own life; why write a script that is filled with suffering? When the pressure is too great and you feel you can’t carry on, find a comb and patiently comb your rough hair until it becomes smooth. Or stay in bed, listen to a few favorite songs, and let the music wash away the fatigue of the day. As Romain Rolland said, there is only one true form of heroism in the world: to love life even after recognizing its truths. Speak kindly if you have something to say, take your time if there’s work to be done; no matter what happens, remember to take care of your stomach first. Go to the bustling market, prepare a few dishes you like, give yourself a small gift you’ve long desired, and rediscover those little joys in life that can bring you comfort. Believe in yourself – you will surely be able to sort out all the chaos, and you will definitely see the rainbow after the rain. Everyone gets tired at times; you need to learn to cheer yourself up. Enjoy every day happily and treat yourself more often, so as to receive more gifts from fate.

Stay optimistic. Rises and falls in life are common; good and bad times come one after another. When faced with hardship or misfortune, despair and depression are of no use; it’s better to smile and make peace with life. Don’t take things too seriously with others, because it’s not worth it; don’t be too strict with yourself, because you can’t afford to get hurt. One is the author of one’s own life; why write a script that is filled with suffering? When the pressure is too great and you feel you can’t carry on, find a comb and patiently comb your rough hair until it becomes smooth. Or stay in bed, listen to a few favorite songs, and let the music wash away the fatigue of the day. As Romain Rolland said, there is only one true form of heroism in the world: to love life even after recognizing its truths. Speak kindly if you have something to say, take your time if there’s work to be done; no matter what happens, remember to take care of your stomach first. Go to the bustling market, prepare a few dishes you like, give yourself a small gift you’ve long desired, and rediscover those little joys in life that can bring you comfort. Believe in yourself – you will surely be able to sort out all the chaos, and you will definitely see the rainbow after the rain. Everyone gets tired at times; you need to learn to cheer yourself up. Enjoy every day happily and treat yourself more often, so as to receive more gifts from fate.

Learn to compromise. To enjoy happiness for a longer time, one must learn to comfort oneself and be more accommodating. Facing the aggressive \"trash people,\" stay calm and hold back your anger. Be more open-minded and think ahead; remember that it’s better to give in in life, and being generous toward others brings blessings. Even with those closest to you, show more understanding. It’s not very meaningful to spend time arguing about who is right and who is wrong. To stay with the person you love most until the end, one must know how to yield appropriately during arguments, and even after gaining that love, continue to cherish it and be grateful for it. If being in love isn’t enough, where is the time to complain and blame? If one cannot remain calm even with those closest to them, how can they withstand the trials and tribulations of this world? To yield is not a form of submission, but rather a sign of generosity ； Giving in might cause temporary frustration, but it can reduce conflicts. By giving in, you are the winner; by yielding, you are the wise one. Give way in front of your friends, and friendship will be stronger ； Give way in front of your family, and it will bring more harmony to the household ； Giving way in front of your colleagues will make work easier. A gentleman yields to a petty person; what he yields is propriety ； Good people give to bad people; what they give is their character ； A man gives to a woman; what he gives is affection ； What a woman gives to a man is love. Those who lower their heads with a smile are truly wise people. Make way, so that your life can be free from unnecessary troubles and filled with tangible beauty.

Happiness is actually very simple. As the saying goes: Things change with the mind; circumstances are created by the mind, and all troubles arise from the mind. The pain in life stems from being hard on oneself. The heart is meant to hold happiness; don’t trap it in worries, for otherwise it will end up filled with pain ； Don’t keep fixating on difficulties and drive away the happiness that belongs to you. Learn to accept reality calmly, learn to tell yourself to let things take their course, learn to face misfortune with equanimity, and learn to view life positively. Bai Luomei said: Life is like a game of chess; as for winning or losing, we are always powerless to do anything about it. When lost, one is usually within the game; by the time one realizes it, they are already outside the game. If one views everything in the mortal world with a calm mind, it becomes simple and clear. If one views the world with a complicated mindset, one will be confused by worldly affairs. For the rest of your life, may you maintain a positive attitude and accumulate more happiness. Remember, there are no insurmountable difficulties – only unfavorable moods. If the heart is clear, then there will be no rainy days in life. May you always stay in a good mood, be a happy person, read books, run, work hard, take care of your health, and become the best version of yourself.

I watched silently as you covered the 6th floor by yourself. . .

I am a migrant worker, specialized in building structures by laying bricks.

It has been built up to the 8th floor; does the 7th floor count as an illegal structure?

Hehe, I’m not sure what mindset lies behind the common saying “People fight over a breath of air; Buddhas fight over a wisp of incense”; P

Mindset determines attitude; with a positive mindset, one can be more open-minded