No one owes you anything
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bg11.jpg People are always *used to seeking some kind of psychological match. In the novel \"Gone with the Wind\", Scarlett is the wealthy young lady from Tara, while Ashley is the son of the family living at Twelve Oaks. In Scarlett’s opinion, the two of them are the most suitable partners for marriage. So, when Ashley unexpectedly announced that he wanted to marry another girl, Melanie, Scarlett simply couldn’t understand it. Because, in her opinion, it was she who Ashley should marry. In this world, how many people suffer just because two words are deeply buried in their hearts: should. This money should have been mine, but it ended up in someone else’s pocket ； This position should have been mine, but it was cunningly taken away by someone else ； This honor, which logically should not have gone to anyone else, ultimately had nothing to do with me. Everyone finds themselves in what \"should be,\" yet loses themselves with every loss. One should live according to their own psychological expectations; this is a form of matching suggestion. But life doesn’t always give us what we expect; it’s a fruitless response. In despair, one can see pain and anger, as well as deep stubbornness and narrow-mindedness. Life doesn’t follow logic, which is meant to tell everyone that in this world, there aren’t that many \"shoulds\". It is really wrong for a person to treat “should” as a form of logic. All the outcomes in life are either imposed by fate or brought about by one’s own actions. The sun rises in the east and sets in the west; it seems to repeat itself every day, yet within that repetition lie infinite possibilities, and even a certain magic. Perhaps, some people are reluctant to accept everything that comes their way. But life does not change its existing possibilities based on anyone’s preferences. Whether something that has already arrived or is still on its way is right or wrong doesn’t matter; time will, in its own way, explain the necessity and logic behind it. In this way, everyone can see the fairness, greatness, and inevitability of time. In this world, no one owes you anything, and there are no such things as \"shoulds\" or \"shouldn’ts\". Sometimes, indifference is the best way to accept it.
Eat, then sleep; after waking up, urinate, then eat again, and so on in a cycle. Eat, urinate – those are the long days of suffering, until finally maturity is achieved. It seems as though the crops are ripe. Once it’s cooked, a seed will fall off. Or fall to the ground. Or blown away to another place. This is called a pattern. The law is also reincarnation. {:3_57:}
There is a cause for every effect; knowledge is a logical relationship. It’s something that should be done this or that; it’s a form of wishful thinking, unrequited love. That’s just wishful thinking:lol:lol:lol
The attitude toward life, the process of cultivation – through experience one can achieve immortality: lol
Turn what should be done into something that must be done; change \"should\" to \"shall\".