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What would you do if your child were beaten by classmates at school? Have the child call back? Or some other method?
Treat it as a form of experience! Handle it properly!
Calling back might not work; if you can’t win, you’ll just look for a fight
If they can’t beat him, it might motivate the child to exercise more diligently in order to gain strength and height, and then beat him!
This post was last edited by qugd on 2020-5-11 at 13:32. There are two methods: 1. Improve one’s child’s ability to strike others as well as their own resistance to being struck, and overcome the opponent through physical strength and skills; this is a more viable approach, but it is time-consuming and demanding. 2. Learn how to use forceful tactics, those that can defeat the opponent with a single move; this works quickly but requires excellent skills, so it is generally not a good option. The best way is to subdue others without fighting, and to win them over through virtue.
The parent takes the child to school to meet with the teacher and that classmate in order to resolve the issue together
Teach children that if they can’t win, they should run away quickly – practice running.
First, find out what the reason is. If it’s a matter related to school bullying, consult a teacher; if it’s a direct conflict between children, help resolve it. Taking revenge is not a good approach
Children have their own ways of dealing with things, unless they ask their parents for help. I remember when my child was in kindergarten and got beaten up; my wife scolded him, saying, \"You have hands – why didn’t you use them to fight back?\" The child didn’t dare, so his wife taught him: “Come on, hit your mom!” ” The son didn’t dare to strike, so his wife told him again, “Go ahead and hit him!” ”The son gave a light tap, and the mother got angry: “Is that what you call hitting?” Hit hard. ”The son also got impatient and slapped him. It made mom shout, “Oh my, really hit like that?” But that’s right, it has to be fought this way. Remember well: if others attack you, fight back in the same way! ” In the end, the child never learned to hit others. Now that my son is almost thirty, when my grandmother or I scold him, he usually doesn’t dare to talk back; only when he’s with his mother does he feel fearless, and sometimes he speaks to her in a way as if she were his daughter, probably because he thought from a young age that it was okay to hit his mother. ;P