What should I do
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I graduated in July 2008, and my salary is approaching 100,000. I work in Hangzhou, while my girlfriend is pursuing a master’s degree at Nankai University. I want to be with her, but I’m reluctant to give up this good salary; moreover, I don’t like this industry at all. I promised her that I would go wherever she went, but the job market is even worse these days, making it harder to find a job. I miss my girlfriend very much right now. Please give me some advice – I’m in a dilemma
LZ, seriously? In this cold winter, with a job that pays 100,000 per year, what more could you possibly want? The average level for chemical enterprises is 3-5W. Well, for a girlfriend, you could ask her to wait until she finishes graduate school before coming to your place to look for a job
Wait 20 years and then go look for her. :lol :lol :lol
I’m stunned – such a high salary, that’s great! But let’s be realistic, haha; these days it’s hard to find a job at all :lol :lol
Since you can get such treatment, there’s no need to worry about finding a job. In other words, a job can always be found again, but it’s not certain that one can find a girlfriend as unique as her. As you keep moving forward in search of what you consider to be good, you should also look back to see if you haven’t lost something that was originally better and more genuine. It’s up to you to decide!
What are you thinking about, girlfriends? SY is the real deal..............
Your salary is really great; I’m even envious. But you need to think about whether you can find another job with such a high salary. If you’re highly skilled, you might be able to find a job with a similar or even better salary, in which case you should go see your girlfriend. After all, love is more important than money. If it’s difficult to find a job with this kind of salary, then consider not taking the job and having your girlfriend come here instead. Calculate it: if you go work there, both of you would earn around 30,000 each. So it’s better for him to come to you, and you can support her with 100,000 per year. Haha, that’s roughly what I mean. Think it over carefully
SY means brushing teeth; you’ve got it wrong – go reflect on yourself!
Yes, in this year of bitter cold. Stability should come first! Have a good winter.
It’s better not to give up one’s job casually! And it’s such a good job too. For a better life for you all in the future, keep persevering!
These days, with the economic situation as it is, it’s already quite good to be able to find a job like yours. Since you’ve raised this question, it means you’ve thought about it; whatever others say are just suggestions and opinions – what really matters is what you think! That’s how real life is; sometimes one has to let go of certain things. You can’t have both fish and bear paws. I think it’s best for you to consider the consequences of each of those two options!
I still don’t know where your girlfriend will go after graduating. Is it not well thought out of you to go to Tianjin to look for her now?
Hangzhou is a really great city. I have an excellent impression of West Lake. Tell your girlfriend to go and see Hangzhou too; if she likes it there as well, let her go there after she finishes college
Career comes first; after all, my girlfriend is still in school, so there’s no need for that at all.
Let her come to you after she graduates. With your high salary now, you can afford to support her education better, and besides, she can visit you whenever she has time.
Let’s talk about it after your girlfriend graduates. I’m really envious of your girlfriend, hehe
It’s rare to be able to earn a salary of 100,000 yuan upon graduation in 2008; one shouldn’t give up on this opportunity. It’s suggested that the original poster wait until his girlfriend graduates before making a decision.
Nankai is in Tianjin, right? If your girlfriend wants to stay in Tianjin, then you can also come to Tianjin to look for a job. Although your annual salary is high at the moment, it’s meaningless if you don’t like it; it’s better to look for new opportunities. With your abilities, you’re definitely capable of finding another good job. Opportunities are for those who are prepared and capable. Moreover, Tianjin is developing rapidly these days, especially the Binhai New Area, where there is definitely a stage for you to showcase your talents. Both love and career are important. Wish you success with both.
Spending money each month is important, but getting married, eating, and supporting a family are even more important. Everyone is aware of the current situation. Talk to your mm; they will support you.
There are many choices in life, but at a specific time and place, there is often only one choice. Once you decide to start, you must accept the corresponding results, while going through a process filled with joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness. :)