Should you stay in a small company or find another way out?
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After graduating from college, I didn’t really look for a job. I thought it was okay to find a small company. But now, as time goes by, my friends around me are recognized for their hard work in finding jobs when they graduate. At the end of the year, I see that other people’s year-end bonuses and various benefits are much higher than mine, and I feel very depressed. But now I have some positions in this small company, and the salary is not bad, but I want to move to a company with better conditions. What should I do? So confused~~~
Tough choice...
Every choice is a battle of interests. First, ask yourself what do you want? If you want something just because others have it, then you might as well think about the old saying, "Competing with others will make people mad." Only by determining what you really want can you ensure that you will not regret your choice. When you see the advantages of many people, you must also look at the disadvantages of others. With a high salary, you must give up something, such as ample rest time and a quiet lifestyle~~~~ Let’s talk about it later.
How to make a perfect choice requires nothing more than two conditions: 1. Understand yourself. You are the subject of choice. As mentioned above, you must understand yourself and what you want. You must also know how much ability you have and how much potential you have. Know what you can get, and then go for it. 2. Understand the outside world. That is to say, the object of choice. Only by truly understanding the choices you are facing, you will not regret it after choosing or giving up. Only by truly understanding the object to be chosen, and combined with a deep understanding of your own strength, can you ensure the successful realization of your choice. In fact, after reading the above, you should know that the choice is not that easy. Both the understanding of oneself and the understanding of the external world are important manifestations of personal quality, which require the accumulation of time and experience. The choice may seem very simple, but in fact it is the most important thing that reflects the level and skill. The ability to choose is not so easy to improve. Finally, if two choices make you very embarrassed, it means that the two are very close, or that although the two choices have their own pros and cons, the pros and cons are actually about the same, at least from your point of view. On the other hand, if the two choices are far apart, you can make a decision long ago. The choice is not that important, at least not as important as most people seem to think. Only hard work will pay off. What is really important is the silent accumulation every day. It should be yours, even if you don’t want it, it will be yours after all. It shouldn’t be yours, and there is no use thinking about it. Even if you force yourself to get it, you will eventually lose it. Please be patient. This post was lastly written by automation_Edited by njut on 2009-2-4 13:15 ]
First of all, there is no comparison between people! Character determines destiny! You have to see whether you have played a role in your current position and whether you have gotten what you deserve! If so, now is not the time to jump ship! When you feel that the current space is too small for you, then choose the right time to jump and jump!
What's there to think about? If you like your current job, stay. If you like challenges, jump out. There is a cloud in historical records: If you continue to break, you will be disrupted! Your youth will never come back after it has passed!
Agree with the person above, I am very confused now and decided to jump
The people on the 2nd floor said a lot, you can think about it carefully. 1. Don’t always compare yourself with others. Isn’t there a saying? Comparing people with others will irritate you to death. The more you compare, the more psychologically unbalanced you will be, and the more you will feel that the place you are in is worse. In fact, some people are glamorous on the surface, but we don’t know what is behind them. If you can do your own thing well, of course you must seize the opportunity to develop to a higher place. 2. You don't have much experience yet, so blindly changing jobs will not do you any good. I would like to ask, LZ, do your company leaders value you?? If they value you, then you don't have to leave at all. If you work hard, you will definitely earn more than your classmates in the future. The longer you work in the chemical industry, the more popular it becomes.
What do you want to pursue? Personally, I think that in the early days of work, you should put income in a secondary position and learn something down-to-earth. Whether it is life or work, you must not be impetuous. There will be plenty of money to be made in the future.
Choosing is not that easy. Both the understanding of oneself and the understanding of the external world are important manifestations of personal quality, which require the accumulation of time and experience. Choosing may seem simple, but in fact it is the most important thing that reflects your level and skill. The ability to choose is not so easy to improve.
Ask yourself what kind of life you want to live before making a decision. There is no need to make meaningless comparisons.
Don't always compare yourself with others. "When three people are walking together, there must be one teacher." If you can't compare, think about what suits you.
You need to adjust your mentality and don't force yourself. I think it's best to compare yourself with yourself. As long as you keep improving, you'll be fine!
It's the same thing for me. I'm currently working in a big company and I can't get promoted.
Doing your job well in a down-to-earth manner is the first priority.* Stronger skills (management, technology) are the second. Based on this condition, you should combine your own abilities and conditions. If you can jump, you can start a business. I made a post to discuss work and entrepreneurship. http://bbs.hcbbs.com/thread-381124-1-1.html The poster can see what everyone said. I have benefited a lot. Now I will seize the time to learn. * If you can succeed with technology and skills, you will be happy if you don't succeed, and learning is not in vain :)