Should I get married this year???

If I change boyfriends, I definitely won’t be able to get married this year. Hehe, just joking. . . . . . The laboratory isn’t as scary as you might think.

The person upstairs who took over the original poster...

Whether to get married is not something that others can decide for you. Put it another way, although the employment situation is not optimistic, people’s jobs are generally not very good either; moreover, marriage and pregnancy are protected by labor laws. Getting married now is also a good thing. Of course, if you think you have great potential for growth and want to become a strong person, then there’s no need to discuss this issue anymore.

Strong-willed women, sweat it out; once they’ve made a fortune, they can pick themselves pretty boys – the future looks bright............ :lol :lol :lol

I originally planned to take the postgraduate entrance exam; I’m not at the level of a strong, independent woman yet, but I still want to have my own little world. Women still need to be somewhat independent

Get married when your financial situation permits.

Do your own things! It’s tough being a woman; I can understand that.

It’s like this in terms of professionalism – don’t think that things will improve just by pursuing a master’s degree. To be honest with you, those who graduated with master’s degrees in 2005 were admitted during the first large-scale expansion of enrollment in 2002; by the time they graduated in 2005, their skills were practically worthless. As for pursuing a master’s degree these days, it’s simply ridiculous. You’re also a woman, and you’re studying engineering, especially in the field of heavy industry. If you try to do this now, it’s still highly uncertain whether you’ll be able to find a job after graduation. There’s still a long way to go... :lol :lol :lol

How old are you? If it’s less than 25, you still have time to play around; if it’s over 25, I advise you to get married – women don’t have much youth to waste

I completely agree. Now they’re expanding the number of graduate students again; to put it bluntly, it’s an irresponsible approach. It’s nothing but selling degrees and cheating people out of their tuition fees. The employment prospects for doctors are even worse than those for graduate students. A long time ago, doctors already had trouble finding jobs. Moreover, don’t think you can learn anything from those supervisors. Those people have not engaged in research for many years since graduating with a doctorate. If they really devoted themselves to research, they would never be able to become professors. In universities, only those who use dishonest methods manage to get ahead. By the time you start working on a research project, they may not know as much as you do...

It’s so tender; I’m jealous of your husband............. :lol :lol :lol

Nanjing University of Technology? I’m not very familiar with your university, but the employment prospects for graduate and doctoral students aren’t as bad as you say, right? Schools aren’t as dark as you describe; there are professors who engage in improper practices, as well as those who are dedicated to academic research. Everyone has their own way of making a living. Graduate students also need funding to work on their theses, so it’s not easy for their supervisors either. Let’s understand each other. Moreover, graduate study is inherently meant to train research skills; as for the specific details of a research project, the supervisor does not necessarily know as much as the graduate student. If the supervisor already understood everything the graduate student was working on, there would be no need for the graduate student to carry out that work.

Is it still possible to reach a conclusion through discussion? Decide for yourself

What was said upstairs is also the truth; however, the employment situation is indeed quite poor. This isn’t unique to our school – I think I know quite a bit about this situation. As for PhD graduates, from what I understand, those who pursue a PhD are all graduate students who fail to find jobs. The situation in schools is really grim. When it comes to doing research, I think the term used across the country to refer to supervisors is “boss,” and that should say enough. I don’t think there are any professors in China who truly engage in research; at least I haven’t seen any nor heard of any such supervisors. Based on the samples from the circles I’ve been in contact with, I’ve gotten to know around 20-30 supervisors from about 7 or 8 universities through various channels, and none of them are engaged in actual research. Maybe my sample size isn’t large enough......

You’ve only been working there for half a year; so how long have you two been dating? What’s the foundation of your relationship? Think carefully before making a decision. Personally, I think it’s a bit early. If he wants to marry you right away, is it because he’s afraid you might leave him? That’s just my opinion.

I also think marriage is a major life decision that should be made by the two of you; why ask others for advice?? The smell in the laboratory is quite strong, and it’s hard to say whether it will have an impact on children. But you two should consider your financial situation. If you’re able to do so and want to get married and have children, then go ahead and do it – don’t just get married just because you think you can. Lastly, how could someone like you post such an article on a site dedicated to workplace life??? It should be posted in the leisure section instead.

Getting married just six months into working. Does the house have a horse?