Suddenly lost interest in work* *
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There is a saying that I admire very much. What is important about a person is not his position, but the direction he is facing. Now I have suddenly lost my direction. My girlfriend wants a house. She has been working for almost three years and she still can’t afford a house. I feel so ashamed! ! There is no passion for work anymore. It’s so sad that I can’t buy a house even though I work so hard! !
Don't be ashamed, it's not your fault. The house price will come down. Keep working hard. It's yours. You can't escape it. Your efforts will eventually be rewarded...
Although I am a woman, I am doing a job that I don’t like and I have no passion for it. The house is a very real issue because the woman also wants stability. Living in a dormitory or renting a house will always give her a feeling of insecurity. LZ has been working for three years and has no savings at all? What about the provident fund? Can’t the family help? There are two people who can buy it together. If you don’t have the above, it is a bit difficult to rely on you alone. Come on LZ, don’t lose confidence over such a small thing!!! Bread will come sooner or later!!
A man must be able to take charge of things. I believe the poster is a real man! ! ! You have just been working for three years. It can be said that you have just entered the industry. You will encounter many difficulties in various aspects in the future. You must be able to bear it and don't be intimidated by difficulties. believe: As long as you persist, you will reach the finish line! ! ! ! ! ! !
Haha, I have been working for two years and have no money to buy a house. I am also a low-income person in the world. I am embarrassed to ask my parents for money. It is embarrassing to be a clinging to the elderly, but I should believe that the future is bright, and I should live a more exciting life even if I have no money. I don’t have money to go to the gym, so it’s good to go to the Xuanwu Lake to do aerobics with a group. It costs nothing and the air is fresh. If you don’t have money to go to a beauty salon, haha, it would be good to use some cucumber skin patches. So money is very important in life, but having no money does not mean there is no happiness!
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Although I have only been working for a year, reality is reality after all. Now I am also thinking about the house issue. I am worried because I have no money! I feel the same way as LZ!
Have a good talk with your girlfriend, I believe she will understand you. Say what you are thinking, considering, and apologizing to show that you will continue to work hard. If you work for 5 or 6 years and both parties work hard, the down payment should be no problem. The nature of the chemical industry determines that when we need money the most, our combat effectiveness is at its weakest. Therefore, once we have a down payment, we will gradually get better. PS. Personally naive idea: Anything can be solved except for issues of principle as long as you communicate effectively, communicate from the bottom of your heart, express your thoughts and your next actions, and be emotional. This post was last edited by hhai on 2009-2-9 18:03 ]
If you want to live in a good house at a young age, there is no such thing as such a good thing. You should face reality and rent a house for ten or eight years first.
:Q Sigh...we are all house slaves...work hard to make money...we all have to live...tired...
Some people only dare to buy a house after being married for 8 years……
Me too, adjust it and it will get better! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
Encountered the same problem as the original poster: House, but luckily I am still a little passionate about my work.
My mood is understandable. I am also worried about the house. Haha~~~~ Take your time and all difficulties will pass.~~~~
It’s better not to think about “eating a fat man in one bite”! There are several realistic experiences of buying a house: 1. Most people work for 3-5 years to accumulate a down payment (and then carry debts for 10 to 20 years or more). ； 2. Some people can buy a second-hand house with all or part of their parents’ savings after working for 3-5 years (this requires full payment) ； 3. There are also cases where both parties have accumulated enough money from working for 8-10 years to directly buy an existing house (also with full payment). ； 4. Very few people can buy an existing house within 1-2 years (parents fully sponsor or nouveau riche type). Could you please tell me which category it belongs to?
The poster is worried, I am not worried about this, but I am very passionate about my work and am willing to invest time and energy. I believe that my efforts will always be rewarded. !