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Suddenly, I felt very depressed

2009-02-18View Original

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Last night, I was filled with unnamed sadness; I felt that I was no longer the passionate and ambitious person I used to be. Now, there are many things I want to do, many things I think about doing, but I never take action. I live day after day in my dreams, and it feels so sad and terrifying. I keep asking myself what I want to do, what I should do, but it seems like I have no direction at all. The time I should spend learning English is spent watching TV, and the time I should spend running is spent on other things. I go to bed very late every night and wake up with dark circles under my eyes. I’ve decided that I can’t continue like this any longer. Starting from March 1st, I will become a new version of myself – a passionate person, someone who leads a structured life, and someone who lives a meaningful life. To live means to do meaningful things. Happy! That’s my wish for myself. No matter what happens, I’ll keep a tolerant heart. If one day I become harsh and critical, it means I must be too old by then.
Reply #22009-02-18
Don’t wait until March 1st either; you can start right now. People who have a habit of procrastinating usually find it hard to change, and that’s exactly my case. I hope the original poster can develop good habits, hehe
Reply #32009-02-18
:)I’m here to support you:victory: We all have our own dreams; with effort and perseverance, we will definitely make them come true. To change oneself means to change one’s mood; once the mood changes, one naturally becomes happy. When one is happy, everything done seems right, and there is passion in everything one does. Let all unhappiness and worries stay away from us; we should move closer to happiness. It’s snowing heavily in Beijing today; the snow purifies the air as well as our hearts. May everyone who has worries melt away with the snowflakes in the air, so that our moods can truly become bright, just like in the song “Beautiful Mood”... Our moods are beautiful, hehe……
Reply #42009-02-18
Go ahead! It was a fulfilling day; from today on, be the passionate version of yourself, starting right now
Reply #52009-02-18
As long as you have dreams and the courage to persevere, anything is possible. Give yourself motivation, let your passion flare – life is infinitely wonderful. Wish you success!
Reply #62009-02-18
Since one is able to reflect in this way, it proves that the original poster still has passion and dreams; hehe, keep working hard!
Reply #72009-02-18
Let’s start right now! I myself don’t know when it started, but my routine has become very irregular; looking back on a day, there are always things that I failed to finish. It’s not that there’s no time, but rather that the time isn’t being utilized properly; then at night one thinks, \"I must study hard tomorrow and not waste any time.\" But by the next day, the plan still hadn’t been completed. Let’s encourage each other, the original poster and I, and work hard together.
Reply #82009-02-18
Hehe, I believe most people have had similar thoughts to the original poster. Things like this need to be done step by step, slowly over time.
Reply #92009-02-18
Original poster, I too suddenly felt very depressed just now… I thought about my life and that sense of failure… I hope you keep working hard.
Reply #102009-02-18
First, stop watching TV. No matter what you do, it’s best to take two days to organize your life and emotions properly, and then start working toward your goals
Reply #112009-02-18
I have high demands and expectations of many young people now; maybe I’m getting old too. The last sentence made me think: one should be more tolerant as they get older.
Reply #122009-02-18
I think only tolerance can bring more happiness, hehe. Let’s all keep pushing forward and strive toward our dreams. I’ve always been strict with myself, but sometimes I relax as well. Come on, to be honest I’m scared of spending my 5 hours after work just in front of the TV every day; it sounds terrifying just thinking about it. I’m in my early 20s and not yet married, and already things are like this. I imagine it will be even worse once I get married. I’d better keep working hard at learning design and English, and also go for runs to cultivate my spirit, so that wrinkles come later.
Reply #132009-02-18
Exposing yourself to people and things outside your professional circle, introducing some novelty into your life, might help spark a sense of motivation; there is nothing sadder than losing heart. Always keep an eye out to discover.
Reply #142009-02-18
Be a passionate person, be someone who leads a structured life; live meaningfully. To live means to do things that have meaning. . . . . . If one day I become bitter and harsh, it means I must be too old. The original poster is truly talented; the writing is genuine and philosophical. I agree completely. But it’s not easy to change oneself; keep it up! Persevere!
Reply #152009-02-18
Don’t wait until March 1st; (you’re just making excuses for yourself.) Start making changes right away, and you can take it slow. You can’t just dig a well with a shovel, right? Just keep improving yourself a little bit every day.
Reply #162009-02-19
MS is leading a more regular life, and her enthusiasm is also increasing
Reply #172009-02-19
  On the long journey of life, anyone who hopes to succeed must have clear goals, detailed plans, work hard, and persevere.   Four words for the original poster—Pride should not be nurtured, desires should not be indulged, joy should not be extreme, and ambition should not be satisfied (Pride must not be allowed to grow, desires must not be unchecked, one should not become overconfident, and joy should not reach extreme levels).
Reply #182009-02-19
Don’t think about it; you’ll forget it in a moment: lol
Reply #192009-02-19
LZ’s lifestyle is pretty similar to mine. I’m quite passionate about life; aside from working, I can also start my own business or something. One shouldn’t live a life that’s too stressful
Reply #202009-02-19
Tell me your secret. I read one page of CHINA DAILY yesterday and listened to some English; I found that I couldn’t understand much of it, as there were many words I didn’t know
Reply #212009-02-19
Persistence is key! I hope you can keep going; perseverance leads to victory! Wish you success:handshake :lol :lol

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