Insights gained from making sandwich cookies over half a year

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Not everyone is open-minded. There are so many people who are petty and vindictive these days; even I am one of them... I used to simply think that interpersonal conflicts were someone else’s problem, but after coming to Haichuan I realized they were my own problem, and later I understood that it’s actually a matter of conflict and struggle. Everything stems from interests. Can hard work and diligence truly be rewarded by fate? Reward = K1*ability + K2*appreciation + K3*interpersonal relationships + K4*luck + K5*resources… All of the K values are coefficients ranging from greater than 0 to less than 1, with the sum of all K values equaling 1. Don’t be impatient; take your time. Everything is understood and accumulated gradually. Knowledge is the same as interpersonal relationships. If you want to learn*, you must learn*; use what is needed to learn, and learn what will be useful in the future now – knowledge is the driving force behind power. Young people should not be afraid of hard work; they must be willing to work hard, put in real effort, and also use smart tactics (by doing only what is beneficial for their own development). Don’t be friends with people at work. Stay away from trouble. Do not integrate into the lower-class environment. You can have a poor relationship with the people below you, but not with your supervisors. It is necessary to integrate into the upper environment. The tone must not be harsh at all. Gentle, gentle, especially when compared to those with a lower salary level. Be appropriately tolerant; don’t be a weakling. Be lenient with some people, and be ruthless with others. Learn to share the benefits. As the saying goes, eating everything by yourself will cause sores in your mouth; if you eat meat, you should at least give others some soup to drink. It’s better to be reserved rather than showy. Give others a chance to survive. Speak less, do more. Stand in the right position. Follow the right person. Enter a promising circle. This is the backend. It is also the platform for the beginning of your life; you need to learn how to be a porter. To learn how to be a person, one should learn from the right people. Learn what you want to become. Finally, please never forget the dreams in your heart. Do not let the filthy things in this society contaminate the light in your heart. Do not join a group that holds no positive value for the development of your life. This post was last edited by steinback on 2009-2-28 15:02]