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Money and love----Russian-Chinese translation. Money is a very important element in marriage. In fact, it is during difficult times that it is not feelings and relationships that keep a marriage together, but rather the assets acquired together. Indeed, a couple burdened with cars, apartments, and houses has a better chance of staying together than a pair of poor people. And this is not only because it’s unpleasant to share things, although that is also important. Assets represent a household that requires money, time, and attention. In this simple way, common interests are created. Money—is a very important component of marriage. To put it bluntly, to maintain a marriage without love, it is not emotions and relationships that serve as the foundation, but rather the common assets of the two people involved. In fact, couples who own cars, townhouses, and country homes tend to live together for longer periods than those who are utterly penniless. The reason is not merely that both sides want to keep the property for themselves, although that is indeed very important as well. Property is something that requires the use of means, time, and effort to be carefully \"managed\". And the common interests of both parties simplify this “business model”. One of my friends faced a family crisis. After 15 years of marriage, the passion between them, of course, faded away. Life became like a long, ordinary day. It should be noted, however, that the subsequent events happened simultaneously, rather than one following another. My friend’s husband signed up on “OkClassmates” and spent entire evenings reminiscing with his school friends. His gaze would become distant, lost in thought. My friend, on her part, also led her own life; in her free time she learned how to drive, and then started thinking about choosing a car. But cars are basically toys for boys. My friend’s husband immediately forgot about his online friends and focused entirely on his wife’s problems. A new “car” appeared in the family, and now the husband spent his evenings browsing car websites, trying to come up with the most stylish and impressive modifications possible. After 15 years of marriage, the passion that once existed faded away naturally, and life became long and dull. However, it is worth mentioning that the subsequent “accident” happened naturally, but it was not caused by each other. My girlfriend’s husband created a classmate directory from middle school, and every night he sits in front of the computer, reminiscing with his female classmates about the good times from middle school. His gaze began to grow dim and lifeless, and he always seemed lost in thought. My girlfriend still leads her own independent life; in her free time she goes to learn how to drive, and she’s starting to consider buying a car. But! ! Cars------such trivial little toys that aren’t worth mentioning! It made her husband immediately forget about the internet and his female classmates, and devote all his attention to his wife. There’s a new car in the family, and the couple sits in the driver’s seat every night, imagining the most stylish and exciting racing adventures. I have a classmate from high school. I remember him as a 25-year-old man who was carefree, handsome, and a real heartthrob. His first wife couldn’t stand his love for a lively lifestyle. His second wife also had a hard time at first. But she turned out to be a clever woman; she pretended to agree with everything. “It will be done the way you want,” something like that. Over time, things worked out such that they ended up in another country, where they had to work very hard. Now, between them there isn’t only love, respect, and tenderness, but also a large house built by their own hands, a garage for two cars, and joint finances. All of this was achieved through hard work, and the wealth they’ve accumulated serves to discipline them far more effectively than a woman’s tears, complaints, and scandals. His first wife did not receive his love and was not happy in her life. At first, things didn’t go very well between the husband and his second wife either, but! She is a smart woman! On the surface, she agreed with everything in life. They always say, “Do it, do it in the way you want!” ”things like that. Life changed completely later on; they moved to another **, and thus had to work hard day and night. Now they not only have love, respect, and tenderness, but also a large house built by their own hands, two cars in the garage, and a substantial amount of money in the bank. All of this is the result of collective effort. The wealth of these married couples prevented him from pursuing other women; rather than women’s tears, snot, and endless arguments, it made him hold himself to stricter standards. By no means do I mean that low material standards can force two people to live together when they cannot stand each other. What I want to say is that a good family can also be built on money. After all, emotions are the most changeable and fickle thing of all; perhaps they’re the least reliable. It’s good to have something else as well, such as money. Under no circumstances do I intend to say that it is those material possessions that bring together a couple who are on the verge of breaking up and force them to live together for the rest of their lives. What I want to emphasize is that “money” is merely the foundation for building a harmonious family. Because emotions are the most changeable and capricious thing, and perhaps in some ways the least reliable. But things are very different when we still have some other things! For example, money... Last edited by sgh760419 on 2009-3-12 14:23]