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Because there are too many setbacks and failures in the job search process, and because of this, we can better understand the hardships of the job search process and the pressure faced by job seekers who are still looking for jobs. What is the key to your personal success or failure? ： Before looking for a job, be sure to set clear goals for yourself. This goal should be based on your own personality characteristics, hobbies, professional expertise, career plans, and actual abilities to make a relatively objective and rational judgment to find your own position and do not set unrealistic goals. For example, I have a more assertive personality, rich personal experience, and am neither strong nor weak in technology. After comprehensive analysis, I feel that I am more suitable to take the route of combining technology and management. Of course, I also know very clearly: Companies such as Microsoft, Google, and Baidu were beyond my ability and not suitable for me, so I didn't take any of their written examinations. Here, in addition to locking in the general goal of finding a job, you must also be clear about: What is your personality better suited to do? What are your strengths? Which positions in which industries should be targeted? For example, if you think you have strong technical skills but poor communication skills, then choose a technical position ； If you are strong in Java, then focus on applying for Java-related positions. ； If you are strong in hardware, apply for hardware-related positions. ； If you are outgoing, often organize activities, and have good communication skills, choose a management position or a sales position. These must be based on a full and objective understanding of yourself. In addition, everyone's personality characteristics and technical expertise are different. Don't blindly imitate others. You must combine your own actual situation to choose the target position that best suits you and has the most advantages. Therefore, I hope you will not be misled by me. I just choose my job search goals based on my actual situation. I am not encouraging students who are engaged in technology to give up technology. I believe that most engineering students are still more suitable for technology. Here, I hope you all remember one sentence: There is no best job, only the most suitable job. The most important deciding factor in finding a job. Most job seekers who fail to find a job often do so because of an incorrect mentality. When looking for a job, you should have a proactive attitude rather than a passive one. There is a qualitative difference between these two mentality, and the results will be very different. This is mainly reflected in: Attitude towards work, attitude towards opportunities, attitude towards competition, attitude towards talented people and attitude towards failure, etc. College students basically study in school * For 4 years, 6 years or even longer, it has been * After being accustomed to school life, now they are about to graduate and find a job, and are suddenly thrust into the society to compete with millions of job seekers. Most people may have difficulty adapting for a while, and cannot accept the change of roles in a short period of time. They still treat employment with the same lifestyle and attitude as they did in school, passively and passively waiting for opportunities to come, and often end up running into obstacles everywhere. The biggest transition everyone has to make after graduation is the transition from student to professional, and the process of finding a job actually requires you to complete this transition.: Can no longer be based on student standards and * Instead of treating yourself in the same way as a professional, you should treat yourself and demand yourself according to the standards of a professional. In this process, you should complete the transformation of your personal role and mentality as soon as possible. So, what is the biggest difference between students and professionals? Personally, I think it is a responsibility. From the time we go to high school, go to college, and then go to graduate school, our families are more often helping us make decisions, or in other words, our education path has been planned for a long time. We rarely make choices for ourselves, and rarely take real responsibility for life, because we are students. During this period, we more often ask for things from our parents and society, but rarely give them anything in return. Because we are students, we do not need to decide our own future, because we are still students before the time comes. But now, when you graduate and are pushed into this society, are you ready to take on the responsibilities you should bear? Now, you must decide your own future life path, and you must be responsible for your own future. You no longer have the help of your parents and relatives, and you have to rely entirely on yourself. Are you ready to take on this responsibility? In the past few years, we have been getting it from others. Now we are about to enter the society. Are you ready to assume the corresponding social responsibilities? In the past few years, we have been growing up under the care of our parents. If we have no money, we can go to them for help. If there is a problem, we can go to them to solve it. Now, these protective umbrellas are gone. You have to face the pressure and responsibilities of life alone and rely entirely on your own efforts to make money, buy a house, get married, raise the next generation, and support your parents. At this time, are you ready to take on the responsibilities of life? You can calm down and think about it: Have I done my best for my future? If not, then please ask: If you are not responsible for your own future, who will be responsible for you? This is the biggest problem that many job seekers face, which is the lack of a sense of responsibility for themselves, their families, and society. This sense of responsibility is what a professional must have, and it is also what many students lack. I think the reason why many students are passive and passive in finding a job is often here. In fact, the process of finding a job provides each of us with an opportunity to decide his own future life path. No one can help you, including your family. Your entire future is completely determined by yourself. Success or failure is all yours. The results are all your own. What you face is the responsibility of your own future life. Therefore, a correct mentality should be: With an attitude of being responsible for yourself, your family, and society, you should take employment seriously, and be proactive, proactive, and do your best to fight for every opportunity for your future. If you can have such a mentality of looking for a job, you will not stay in the dormitory, waiting for others to tell you recruitment information, waiting for others to call you to attend the job fair, you will not miss the job fair because you get up late, you will not turn on the phone every day and think about chatting, playing games, drinking water, watching movies, and you will no longer say "Take me to apply for one, don't go", "That's it, I'm too lazy to change", "Why didn't you tell me when xx company came", "Where is your information?" How come I didn't notice? ”“Why did you submit so many resumes? ”, you will no longer think about "The interview at company xx is in Beijing, should I go?" ”“Company xx despises me, do I still want to go to Bawang Noodles? ”. Because at this time, you should know: You can’t find a job and have no connections with others. No one can be responsible for your future except yourself. You have no one to rely on, you can only rely on yourself. Can you see the difference? when you start to understand: Finding a job is your own responsibility and an opportunity for you to find a life path that suits you. When you officially enter this society, participate in competition, assume responsibilities, and repay your parents and society, you will be proactive and devote yourself to the process of finding a job, and do your best to create and fight for every opportunity for yourself. because: You have to be responsible for your own life, for the parents who raised you, and for the entire society. You cannot allow yourself to look back and regret that you did not do your best during this period after you have started a family and started a career and taken many detours. Therefore, your attitude towards finding a job should be: Be serious and responsible, proactive, go all out, and do your best without regrets. This post was last edited by hallon520 on 2009-3-13 14:06 ]