How to balance your mentality?
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I don’t know if this is the case in other refineries. The “treatment” of different units will be very different. People who join the factory in the same batch may be assigned to different units in the first place. In 10 years, someone else may be the director of the factory, but you will still be a shift worker. Just because the so-called important device (which often causes trouble) is valued by the leader, the leader often comes out of that device. ； Once the installation is stable, the leader will be less "concerned", so you will be ignored. Others will have a halo everywhere, but you can only meditate silently. It seems that the family into which you are born determines your abilities in life. We can't complain about these things, it can only mean that we are "bad luck". I would like to discuss with you friends, how can you get out of this confusion, balance your mentality, and work happily?
Find reasons to comfort yourself, "Everyone has his own suffering." Isn’t it possible that all of your classmates will be leaders except you? Still a minority. Sometimes people should have a horizontal ratio, and sometimes they should have a vertical ratio. Compare yourself now with your previous self.
You can also make some minor problems with the devices you manage so that your leaders will pay attention to them. Let them know that you exist. Your devices also need to be managed by people: lol :lol :lol
You can't compare. Comparing people is infuriating. Not everyone can take the same path. If you follow your own career plan and achieve your goals by yourself, your mentality will be balanced. Once you have a sense of accomplishment in your heart, your mentality will be better. Other people's development is their own. Sometimes it seems to be external factors, but in fact it may be what your classmate wants to achieve, or it may be his own career plan and purpose. If your professional purpose is the same as his, then transfer away from this environment or change your professional purpose, otherwise it may destroy your fighting spirit. like Chinese * * host * There is only one and you want to be the master * , what to do? There are only immigrants. Otherwise, just become prime minister instead. hehe. The same principle applies.
If the poster feels there is no chance, just leave. People live, but trees die when they are moved.
My situation is somewhat similar to yours. There was only one undergraduate student in our workshop before me. After I arrived, he became a key training target. Others were sorted in with me. Those who went to key workshops have not yet been assigned positions. Large workshops are developing rapidly, but not everyone has the opportunity to be a factory director.； The road to the small workshop is narrow, but there are few people walking there. Isn't there something to say?: Would you rather be a chicken head than a phoenix tail? As long as you do it, you will always be seen and appreciated by others.
Regarding mentality issues, don’t always think that God is unfair to you. In fact, as time goes by, you will find that God is fair.
In a word, don’t just see the “halo”, you will get rewards if you pay!
I often find problems at work and deal with them first before reporting them. If there are too many, someone will pass them on.
Advanced experience in production management: Create conflicts and resolve conflicts. Some leaders only see the busyness when something goes wrong, but fail to see that the cost of maintaining stability is more than the cost of having something go wrong. Sometimes I think about doing everything possible to nip accidents in the bud, including management, so that the equipment can run smoothly for a long time, but the result is the same as the original poster. You are not responsible for the good things. To give a simple example, each of the employees of my equipment can replace 10 valves per day during maintenance. They think this is what you should do. Other units have super powers to change one valve a day. Sometimes it is really chilling to think about it! ! Later I figured it out, it’s still a question of method, I’ll think about it slowly.
You have to be dignified in front of others, work hard behind the scenes, and gold always shines. There are opportunities to work with peace of mind.
Opportunities and destiny are rare. God has destined you to be a manager, so no one can do anything about it. Think about why others are leaders, and imagine why you can't be a leader. Maybe if you think too much, more brain cells will die, and you will be more tired. If you want to live comfortably, you just have to think about nothing.
Establish a goal and ask yourself to strive for this goal every moment. Don’t worry about what others think of you, only focus on your inner feelings.
There are many unfair places in this society. Let's be open-minded. Although you are no worse than others, you may not get what you deserve. Treat life with a normal mind.
After I graduated from the undergraduate program, I worked shifts in an oil refinery. A few years later, I was still working shifts. As a deputy manager, I couldn't bear it anymore and resigned. Before I left, the leader of the organization department said meaningfully, "What a pity. The factory is planning to use you." I burst into tears when I heard that. How can I hate it after I left home? It’s already now, but the leader is still so hypocritical. Do you really want to wait until my hair turns gray to “use” it? Well now, after leaving that factory, my destiny has completely changed. Believe that if people move, they will live, and if they move, trees will die. Don't stick to one place. Maybe the outside world is very exciting. It depends on whether you have the courage and ability to go out and change your way of life.
Different positions have different divisions of labor and responsibilities. Just do your job well and have a clear conscience.
When heaven is about to entrust a great responsibility to this person, he must first strain his mind, strain his muscles and bones, starve his body and skin, and deplete his body... These words are not unreasonable. Don't regret the entire forest just because you tripped over a branch. Believe in yourself, gold will always shine. I hope the poster regains his fighting spirit and proves himself!
“"Fate" is a loser's excuse. :'("Luck" is the humility of a successful person. :P
You have to walk your own path, and you have to balance your mentality by yourself. This problem does exist in the refinery, but the road is your own. Can you find other reasons? It’s better to discover problems from yourself. Ordinary positions can lead to extraordinary things.
Looking at opportunities in a short period of time does not mean continuity. Do your job well, use all available opportunities to enrich your skills, affinity, management ideas, adaptability and other capital. Wait for the right opportunity to realize your dreams. The more experience you have at the grassroots level and the harder your foundation is, the more you will have immeasurable potential and stamina.
“"Character determines destiny, and tolerance determines pattern." I particularly like this sentence, but I also warn myself to "smile at life and be content with what you have."