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Interacting with others

2009-03-23View Original

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What would you do if a colleague, in order to get promoted, told their boss the ideas you shared with them regarding the way the boss handled certain matters improperly?
Reply #22009-03-23
In daily life, avoid talking about colleagues and supervisors, as this can strain the relationships between you and them. It is best to offer assistance at work without discussing others, to do one’s own job well, and to work together with colleagues. This is the best approach.
Reply #32009-03-23
Yes, I agree with what was said above, but it’s very difficult to do that – after all, no one talks bad about others in front of them, yet they themselves aren’t spared from being talked about behind their backs; LZ can only say they met the wrong person.
Reply #42009-03-23
Learn a lesson from this: people’s true intentions are hidden; even those you consider your closest friends might stab you in the back at a critical moment. So try to keep your thoughts to yourself. As the boss said, \"This is an essential professional ethic,\" and break off relations with such people!
Reply #52009-03-23
The OP will eventually encounter such a thing; it can only be used as a lesson to learn from. At work, do not comment on leaders or colleagues; even if you are involved, focus on giving praise. It’s best to focus on working and talk less.
Reply #62009-03-23
Agree with the person upstairs – focus on working and talk less! It’s best not to talk about colleagues, bosses!
Reply #72009-03-23
No matter when, never talk about your colleagues and supervisors behind their backs
Reply #82009-03-24
One of my colleagues was also betrayed; it’s a common occurrence. Speak less and do more – that’s definitely right. If you’re feeling down, you can talk about it, but find friends who aren’t related to the person you want to talk to – those who have no connection at all to that person. You can talk to such listeners. It’s best to identify people first and stay away from scoundrels; I despise them.
Reply #92009-03-24
It depends on what kind of person the leader is. It’s normal for the people to have their opinions and views; those who betray others for personal gain should be punished.
Reply #102009-03-24
Live with your tail between your legs, focus on your work – silence is gold!
Reply #112009-03-24
Speak sparingly to everyone; there are many people in the workplace who enjoy causing trouble. One should do their own job well and not give others any reason to criticize them! When faced with situations, try to think positively and act in the best possible way. When the environment is so poor and everyone feels threatened, trying to stay pure in such conditions is likely to be seen as unconventional; changing environments could be a good option.
Reply #122009-03-24
People’s hearts are often separated by their pride; do not easily express your dissatisfaction with your leaders and supervisors in front of others, though kind words are an exception. In today’s society, it’s common for there to be hidden motives behind smiles; it’s very complicated! Doing more and talking less is the key to ensuring that your boss doesn’t dislike you. However, from another perspective, when you have your own opinions regarding the leader’s approaches and decisions (especially those related to the company’s development), and when you feel you are right and have sufficient reasons to back up your views, you should discuss them directly with the leader. Be careful with the way you phrase things and your tone of voice. Even if the leader does not adopt your suggestions, he will view you differently – more positively – because you are thinking about the interests of the company. I think any leader would like such an employee. This post was last edited by dwf198208 on 2009-3-24 13:53.]
Reply #132009-03-25
Let him be a leader too! I’ve found that once someone becomes a leader, they undergo significant changes. As for what kind of changes those are, I won’t say

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