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Beware of those who have nothing. Learn to say "no" politely and flexibly. Don't expect life to be completely fair. If losing one battle will win you the entire war, don't hesitate to give up decisively. Don’t be afraid to say “I don’t know.” Compliment three people every day. Look into other people's eyes. Say "thank you" often. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Make new friends and strengthen old ones. Keep secrets. Admit mistakes promptly. Learn to listen, and sometimes opportunity knocks gently on your door while listening. Be deaf to bad words. Great ideas that change the world often come from people working independently. If you decide which side to take, have determination and confidence. If you have a lemon, turn it into lemon juice. You can only lend books to others that may or may not be returned. Be careful when choosing your life partner, it determines 90% of your happiness. Don't say the word "impossible". First reaction to everything: Find ways, not excuses. Say "Awesome" out loud to yourself when you encounter setbacks. Don’t say negative words, don’t fall into negative emotions, and deal with them head-on immediately if they arise. Always set goals in advance and try to create a "dream version" of them. Whenever planning ahead, try to visualize your goals. Use your spare time to do odd things at any time. Be punctual. Write it down and don’t rely too much on your brain memory. Write down important concepts and methods to remind yourself at any time. Sit in the front row at meetings. Listen carefully. Don't interrupt other people's conversations. Write thank you cards promptly, even on letter paper. Don't speak to others in a scolding and accusatory tone. A good friend must cultivate a confidant. Don't think that you are so versatile and have friends everywhere. In the end, there is only one who truly loves you. Trust me. Don't make decisions when you're angry.