I’ll teach you 28 tricks to make everyone look at you with admiration in social situations and at the workplace!

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1. One’s appearance shouldn’t be unpleasant; if it isn’t good, then have talent； If you lack talent as well, then just smile all the time. 2. Temperament is key. If one can’t master fashion, it’s better to be simple. 3. When shaking hands with someone, you can hold it for a bit longer. Sincerity is a treasure. 4. It’s not necessary to use “I” as the subject for everything. 5. Don’t borrow money from friends. 6. Don’t “force” guests to look at your family photo album. 7. When riding with someone, sit next to the driver first. 8. Keep speaking well of others behind their backs; don’t worry that those kind words won’t reach the person in question. 9. When someone speaks ill of another person in front of you, you just smile. 10. If you are driving your own car, don’t stop specifically to greet a colleague who is riding a bicycle. People will think you’re showing off. 11. When a colleague is sick, go to visit them. I naturally sat down by his sickbed and went home to wash my hands properly. 12. Don’t let everyone know about the past. 13. Respect those who don’t like you. 14. Focus on the matter, not the person ； Or be heartless toward matters, but kind toward people ； Or put people first, and tasks second. 15. Self-criticism always makes one believe, whereas self-praise does not. 16. Nothing improves your bowling scores more than the onlookers. So, don’t hold back your applause in normal times. 17. Do not take others’ kindness for granted. One should know how to be grateful. 18. The “myna” on the banyan tree keeps talking, but no one listens, resulting in chaos. Learn to listen. 19. Respect the staff in the reception area and the cleaning ladies. 20. Remember to start sentences with “we” when speaking. 21. Clap for everyone who goes on stage to sing. 22. Sometimes you have to ask on purpose: Your diamond ring must be expensive! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can’t, such as: How old are you? 23. Talking too much leads to mistakes; speak less in crowded places. 24. Change the unexported “No” to phrases such as: “It will take some time,” “I’ll do my best,” “I’m not sure,” “I’ll call you once I’ve made a decision”… 25. Don’t expect everyone to like you; that’s impossible. It’s sufficient to win over the majority. 26. Of course, one should like themselves. 27. If you are performing or giving a speech, you must continue with dedication as long as there is even one person listening; you should perform even if no one applauds, because this is the path to your success, the cradle of your success. It’s not about others’ success that matters, but your own success. 28. If you see a post that is worth reading, then you must reply, because your reply will give people the courage to move forward and serve as a great source of inspiration for them. It will also make people grateful to you.