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1. Career always comes first. Although money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible. Although this sentence is very cliché, it is absolutely true. So before the age of 30, please put most of your energy on your career. 2. Don’t take money too seriously. Don’t complain that your current salary is low, your bank deposit is less than 4 digits, and you can’t see a future. All you have to do now is study hard.* No matter how high your diploma is, it still takes a long time to apply theory into practice. Society is always the most comprehensive university, and the knowledge it allows you to learn is far more important than what you learn in school. So, don’t mind too much about low academic qualifications. There are still very few people who buy a car or a house by their own ability before the age of 30. 3. Learn to be considerate of your parents and don’t think they are nagging you. When you become a father, you will know how pitiful parents are. In their eyes, you are still a child, but they are really old. Now it is up to you to make them happy. Maybe just a phone call or a small gift from you can make them feel at ease. It is easy to do. 4. Making good friends has a great influence on your life. Don't make too many fair-weather friends. At least one friend can help you at critical moments. If you meet such a person, take good care of it. It will definitely be useful in the future, no matter whether he is rich or poor now. 5. Don’t believe too much in love. There must be love in your heart, but please don’t say or believe those oaths in Aunt Qiong Yao’s novels. There is no eternity in the world, and the important thing is responsibility. But a woman’s heart is at the bottom of her heart. If her heart changes, everything will be in vain. All you have to do is to take action when it’s time to take action, and don’t hesitate when it’s time to let go. Love before the age of 30 is not fake, but most people don’t have the ability to truly grasp it, so learn to do what you can. 6. Don’t worry about still retaining your first kiss. Love is not about quantity but quality. Don’t think that you are afraid that you will never find a wife because you haven’t touched a girl in your 20s. You will have many opportunities to meet girls in the future. You must know that although there are more men than women in this society, the reality is that women are actually more worried about this problem than men. For a man who is 30 years old, you are appreciating rather than devaluing. Mature love is often more beautiful and long-lasting, so don’t be like a mad dog and want to chase a girl when you see it. Learn to taste loneliness. 7. Don’t be addicted to anything so-called playthings and get discouraged. Online games are what you played before you left school. You don’t have extra time and energy to spend on it now, otherwise you will have to repay everything you overdraw in the future. A person must have interests and hobbies, but please distinguish the importance. 8. If you are young and have not failed, don’t be discouraged when you encounter setbacks. Young people should always maintain a positive attitude. If you fail, try again; if you lose, strive for something else. If you missed it, you need to analyze it. Next time you come, you need to grasp it. ; You're childish. Next time, be more mature. It doesn't matter, it will be fine. Even if it reaches the extreme, don't give up. I believe you can get through it. Don't be negative, it will be fine. The mistakes of the past are in the past and cannot be recalled in the past. Now, it's very good. I'm tired and very comfortable. Don't get hurt, there will always be someone to support you. 9. Don’t worship or despise someone easily. Everyone has an idol, but please have your own personality. Don’t deliberately imitate someone, because you are you, unique and unique, and you must be confident. Don’t completely deny someone, everyone is valuable. If you can’t understand him, please learn to accept it. 10. Be responsible. No matter how you have been, please be an upright person from now on. Men must be responsible, whether in work or life. Only a responsible person can make others feel safe and make others feel that you are a trustworthy person. We don't want to be cowardly, but please don't hurt the people who love you and the people you love, especially kind girls, because there are not many kind girls in the world. Even if you don't want to have them, please let her keep her beautiful heart. 11. The appearance of a man is not important. Don't worry too much about your appearance and height. A man with a kind heart and integrity is far more handsome than those men who have handsome appearance and tall figure but are dirty inside. If someone judges a person by his appearance, please don't take it too seriously, because you don't have to feel sad for a person with low taste. 12. Learn to protect your body. Don’t think that it’s okay to smoke, drink, or stay up all night now. That’s because your body is in the golden period of your life. After the age of 30, you will understand the meaning of the word “incompetent.” The body is the capital of the revolution. Without a good body, you can’t do anything, so you should try your best to live a regular and healthy life. 13. Don’t feel that nothing has been accomplished. You are not yet qualified to talk about success, of course, except if you have tens of millions of assets. A career that is too fixed at the beginning is not necessarily a good thing. Perhaps as you continue to change careers, you will learn more knowledge, tap your potential, and find the job that suits you best. 14. Please work hard. No matter how boring or low-level your current job is, please take it seriously. You must know that any successful person starts from the smallest things. Maybe you can’t learn great knowledge now, but at least you must learn a good working attitude and working methods, which will be very important in the future. 15. Please take relationships seriously. Don’t envy those playboys who dedicate their time to women like changing shoes.: 2007-05-11 20:24:57 15. Please take your feelings seriously. Don't envy those playboys who change women like shoes. Love on the spot just makes you waste time and energy. The most painful thing for a person is not that he can't find his lover, but that there is no love in his heart. When you turn the three words "I love you" into the easiest sentence for you, then you are in love. It is difficult to find true happiness in the world of love. There is no fairness in love. There is always one person who pays more than the other person. Even if there is no result, don’t feel it is not worth it, because your efforts are not only for her, but also for your own love. Paying for love is very valuable, praise yourself. 16. Please keep a little childlike innocence deep in your heart, even if it is just a small corner. Please keep a childlike innocence. It is not childish, but sometimes being simple will make you very happy. So don’t care too much about gains and losses, life is not perfect. Finally, learn to respect others, so that others will respect you.