Refusal to drink ===== Essential for social interactions

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The drinking party, as a social setting, is quite a test for people. You shouldn’t drink alcohol; it’s better to learn to say no to it ； If you can’t keep your new friends happy with your drinking skills, then use your eloquent tongue to make them happy. In this way, you harm your own body right away, without letting the person who is persuading you to drink be disappointed. Below are some ways to say no to alcohol; do you think they’ll work? I. As long as the relationship is strong, one can drink as much as they want. You could elaborate by saying: “Even 9,999 roses cannot sustain a love affair.” It’s just that the feelings aren’t enough. Only roses are used to make up for it. Therefore, as long as the relationship is good, you can drink as much as you want. I don’t want there to be so much ‘water’ mixed into our relationship. I may have drunk a little, but that little amount was a drop of deep affection. Every little thing is a manifestation of affection! ” II. As long as the emotional connection is strong, one can feel intoxicated even without drinking. Try saying this: \"Drinking with someone you don’t like is a form of suffering.\" ； Drinking with the person you like is a touching experience. The fact that we get together shows that our feelings for each other are strong enough. As long as the emotions are right, one can be intoxicated even without drinking. III. As long as there is affection, anything consumed can be considered wine. If you truly cannot drink alcohol, you might consider convincing your partner to use drinks or tea in place of alcohol. You ask him, “Do we have feelings for each other?” ”He would reply, “You!” ”You then say, “As long as there’s affection, anything you drink is wine.” What is emotion? Love is understanding; long live understanding! ”You then use tea in place of wine to show your respect. IV. Superficial feelings, even when drinking large amounts ； When feelings are deep, even a lick is enough. At the dinner table, though there are countless words to say, it all boils down to one word: “drink”. For example: “If you don’t drink this wine, it must be because you think I’m ugly.” ”For example: “Deep feelings, swallowed in one gulp” ； The feelings are shallow; just a quick lick. ”Those who urge others to drink tie the amount of alcohol consumed to a person’s appearance and the depth of their feelings. You can refute their connection: “If the depth of feelings is proportional to the amount of alcohol consumed, then such deep feelings of ours cannot be expressed with just one drink.” We should dive into the wine jar, for our friendship over the years is as deep as the ocean. In fact, if the feelings are shallow, even drinking from a large bowl won’t help ； If the affection is deep, even a lick will do. ” V. To avoid hurting feelings, I’ll drink ； To avoid harming my health, I drink a little. He advises you: “Drink!” Love is like iron; it makes one bleed! It’s better to harm one’s body than one’s feelings ； I’d rather damage my stomach than let my relationships suffer even the slightest crack! ”This is an irrational behavior; you can reply like this: “We should consume rationally and drink rationally.” ‘I’ll keep half awake and half drunk, so that at least in my dreams I can have you by my side. I’m someone who doesn’t want to hurt either physically or emotionally. Without a body, there is nothing to express emotions ； Without emotions, one is nothing but a walking corpse! To avoid hurting feelings, I’ll drink ； To avoid harming my health, I drink a little. ” VI. On this joyful moment, let’s do some multiple-choice questions! If we think more creatively, ways to avoid alcohol will come to mind. He wants to use alcohol to express his feelings for you; then you say ； “A happy moment is when you can do multiple-choice questions. To express feelings and intentions, one can: A. Hug, B. Hold hands, C. Drink alcohol; choose any one of them first. I respect you, so I’ll let you choose ； You respect me, so you should let me choose. Now, I choose A. Hug, okay? ” VII. A gentleman speaks, but does not act with his hands. If he asks you to drink, you can skillfully avoid a dilemma and lure him into a trap. You ask him, “Do you want to be a gentleman or a scoundrel?” Please answer this question first. ”If he says he is willing to be a gentleman, you can say that the friendship between gentlemen is as mild as water; use tea in place of wine, or say that a gentleman uses words rather than force, and then invite him to drink ； If he says he’s willing to be a scoundrel, you say, “I won’t drink with scoundrels,” then sit down smiling, and he has no choice but to accept it. In short, there are many ways to decline alcohol offers; one must be flexible and respond appropriately to each situation. In the culture of drinking, there are both words to encourage someone to drink and those to refuse it. Even if you don’t have a high tolerance for alcohol, you can still use your wit and eloquence to navigate social situations with ease. Extra: One or two liang is enough for rinsing the mouth; three or four liang isn’t considered alcohol. Five or six liang makes one need to lean on a wall to walk, while seven or eight liang still leaves one shouting. As long as it’s in your heart, tea can be regarded as wine too! Food and drink pass through the body, but friends remain in the heart! With a true friend, even a thousand cups aren’t enough; drink as much as you can, and if you can’t go on, leave right away. If you just stand there with your legs apart, it doesn’t count as drinking. If the guests drink, they must get drunk; otherwise, the host would be ashamed! When one is in the world, how can one do without drinking? Those who get together are close friends; I’ll have two drinks to relax first. If you see injustice, shout out! If not you, then who will drink? Alcohol gives heroes courage; they refuse to be controlled by their wives! The market economy is all about competition; hurry up and have a drink of this fine wine. The great river has wide waves; let’s raise this cup and drink to it. To make guests enjoy their drink, one must drink first! If you don’t want others to know, you’d better not drink. The sky is blue, the sea is blue; cups are passed back and forth. No clouds in the sky and drought on the ground; that cup just now doesn’t count. Is the relationship strong? Iron! Then there’s no need to worry about stomach bleeding! Is the affection deep? Deep! Then there’s no need to be afraid of getting an IV drip! If you drink, it’s not worth it if you don’t enjoy it; emotions won’t be stirred either.