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What should you do if your boss always hits you and harasses you?

2009-08-05View Original

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This post was last edited by steinback on 2009-8-7 11:39. I have been depressed recently because my boss always targets me, for example, giving me a bad nickname, and deliberately saying proudly in front of me how he is doing. I won't let you work well when you're working, and you'll be told that this is wrong and that is wrong. what to do? He had recently been promoted and had been jealous of me before. Because my diploma is higher than his. Thank you for your concern, but I suddenly found that there is no rating. I will make up for it tomorrow. Our leader was a college student 10 years ago, but he had been working as a technician at the grassroots level before. This year the director and deputy director of our workshop happened to retire, so the new director (his iron brother) transferred him from an outside workshop to serve as deputy director. He probably thinks that my ability and education are higher than his, and he has always regarded me as a potential rival. Now that he is your leader, he always shows off in front of me. In order to keep his position, he was deliberately suppressing me. As for what is remarkable about him is that he also has a diploma and his brother is a big leader... Many people in the upper management look down on him. I understand this, but the problem is that the sky is high and the emperor is far away... Thank you everyone for your advice, but I have been putting up with it for half a year. I also wanted to have a good relationship with him, but finally found that it is impossible. There is no room for two tigers in the same mountain. He does not have me, and I do not have him. I think this is his idea. In our workshop, according to them, he and I are the more capable people. Others with diplomas seem to know nothing in other people's opinions. They said they have never seen anyone as diligent as me. I think, since he thinks I am a threat, then it is inevitable to punish me. There is no other way but to leave. Today, a master advised me to be flexible and adaptable. It seems that some people sympathize with me. But I will think of some way to disgust him before leaving. I decided to nickname him Bitch. It's okay to call me a cunt... It seems so unqualified... It's late at night and I can't sleep. I think it's uncomfortable for everyone when things happen like this. We are all losers. He has lost a capable person who can help him, and I have lost a staircase to climb up. We are all losers. I think the most important reason is that our leader likes to express himself too much, but I also like to express myself too much. When our leader saw my performance, he was deprived of his opportunity to express himself, so he treated me badly. I thought he was the leader, so why did he express so much? Maybe it was because the teacher I studied with before was too decentralized. Sometimes people are very complicated and very simple. There are not many evil people, and there are not many people with noble morals. Most people are ordinary people. He may have been holding it in for too long and wanted to show off. At the same time, because it took him so long to become an official, he would attack anyone who threatened him. It seems to me that I hit the muzzle of the gun. Maybe wait slowly. As others have said, it will always be your turn. But that would be too bad for me to realize my dream. In fact, I should keep a low profile and learn * You can also be low-key, but unfortunately you can't be low-key if you want to show off... When I really surpass him by a long way, I will show off again. Then, who can stop me? I think the reason why he is looked down upon by his superiors is that he is not generous enough... Who knows? Let’s talk about the background. In fact, I seemed to have a pretty good relationship with my boss a year ago. I don’t want the trouble to end like this. Originally, he had just been promoted, and he gave a formal order half a year ago, telling me to work hard and to promote me. I wanted to repay the favor, so I would study hard. * Working hard is a reward for those who promote you. Who would have thought that half a year ago, he would suddenly come to me when he was drunk. He said those words that hit me, telling me to be careful, my position was unstable, etc. What made me sad the most was to be careful... If you dare me to work well for you, I will still be punished. Such a leader is terrible. , so after that, I started to keep a low profile and distanced myself from my boss. I slowly learned the lesson, but I just didn’t understand why he seemed to be getting more and more excessive and his attacks became more and more blatant. I have a strong personality and I could tolerate it at first. But by this month, I found that I couldn’t bear it anymore. So I posted here. He said that my nickname was not followed by others, I think, because others were just watching the fun, as everyone said. They are probably still afraid that I might retaliate against them if I get the chance one day, because they have seen too many such instances. Could it be that the leader was just lying to me, but was actually wary of me from the beginning? Or am I really behaving inappropriately? I am not disrespectful to him, he is a teacher (he has been a trainer for a period of time before), or is he Taizu, and does he really want to delegate power to Shaoqi? I thought, is it rare for me to be Brother Biao? Is it a pretense for someone else to be your heir? ? ? Actually want to help other people? ? ? Let you fall in Mongolia? ? I thought that if I performed well, I would be favored by the leader. Who would have thought that this would be the result. If you don't work hard and endure it slowly, will you be able to endure it?
Reply #22009-08-05
Situations in life are unpredictable, and good times will not always come, so be cautious... Sooner or later, those who are capable will be recognized at work!
Reply #32009-08-05
Remember a word: If you punish others, you will not die; if you punish yourself, you will kill yourself! Gold always shines.
Reply #42009-08-05
Go your own way and let others tell you
Reply #52009-08-05
This is normal. I have also encountered this kind of thing. Don’t care too much about what the leader says. As the 4th floor said: Go your own way and let others tell you!
Reply #62009-08-05
A high diploma does not mean strong ability. Pay attention to good communication with your boss. It is best to become a friend so that he does not think you are a threat to his career.; If communication doesn't work, try to avoid it as much as possible to avoid irritating him. ; In the end, you can no longer stay, so you have to leave. No one is left here, there is a place for people. As long as you have the ability, there will be food there.
Reply #72009-08-05
Everything has two sides, and maybe this is also a test for your life. "God has given you great responsibilities."……”
Reply #82009-08-05
In fact, this situation occurs in all units. Some old comrades are skilled but have low diplomas. In order to improve the cultural level of the company's personnel, the company recruits some freshly graduated college students to serve as facades every year. This kind of imagination exists, just like the situation in the TV series "The Craftsman". In order to solve a workpiece problem, college students used modern tools and still couldn't solve it. However, after those old craftsmen went there, two hammers were finalized. Can you not admire their skills? So in real work, everyone will encounter your situation, and there is no need to feel helpless or hesitant. As long as you have a correct attitude and ask them for advice more humbly, sometimes when he explains a problem to you, you should listen humbly, even if he says If something is incorrect, you can’t point it out to others in front of them. When you are alone with them in the future, you should express your correct views in a consultative tone. In short, it is an important prerequisite to have a good relationship with them. If you learn something, you will not be afraid of not being able to get ahead in the future. Good luck!
Reply #92009-08-05
What the Sixth Floor said is right. It is best to find an opportunity to treat him to a meal. This is not to curry favor with him, but this step must be taken.
Reply #102009-08-05
Nicknames don't matter. Many people in our company have nicknames, both good and bad. When we meet, we sometimes call them and everyone laughs and laughs. Maybe it's because you are unbalanced. You also said that you have a high degree of education. For psychological effects, it’s OK to treat it calmly.

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