Rules at the drinking table (essential for men)

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Rules at the drinking table: (1) If you really can’t drink, then don’t take the first sip; just hold your bowl and eat your food. (2) If you’re sure you can drink, then don’t act hesitant – here are the rules. Rule 1: At the drinking table, though feelings are deep, one should drink it all in one gulp； \"The feelings are shallow; just give it a lick.\" But one must never say such things while drinking. Rule 2: Keep a low profile, build up your strength over time, and under no circumstances act arrogantly as soon as you sit down at the bar. Rule 3: Leaders must finish drinking with each other before it’s their turn to toast. Rule four: Multiple people can pay tribute to one person, but it’s never allowed for one person to pay tribute to multiple people, unless you’re the leader. Rule 5: When offering a drink to someone else, if there is no toasting, you can decide how much to drink based on the circumstances – such as the other person’s tolerance for alcohol and their attitude toward drinking. Do not drink less than them, keeping in mind that it is you who is offering the drink. Rule 6: Offer a drink to others first. If you clink glasses, say, “I’ll finish it first; you go ahead,” to show generosity. Rule 7: If you hold a low position, remember to pour more alcohol for your superiors. Don’t drink on their behalf without reason; and even if you do have to do so, wait until they truly ask someone to do it, and pretend that you are drinking because you want to, not to serve them. For example, if Leader A can’t handle alcohol well, one can subtly stop those who intend to offer drinks to him. Rule 8: Hold the wine glass (beer mug) with your right hand gripping it, and your left hand supporting the bottom of the glass; remember to keep your glass always lower than others’. If I were a leader, I would know when to back off and not set myself too low; otherwise, how can I expect those under me to behave properly? Rule 9: If no special guests are present, it’s best to pass the drinks in clockwise order, without favoring some over others. Rule ten: When clinking glasses and toasting, there should be a reason for it; otherwise, why the hell would I drink from your glass? Rule 11: Do not discuss business at the table. Once the drinking is over, the business matters are essentially settled; everyone understands this, otherwise they wouldn’t drink with you so openly. Rule twelve: Don’t act deceitfully, say wrong things, or do wrong actions; don’t argue – accepting punishment voluntarily is the true solution. Rule 13: Suppose, just suppose, there isn’t enough wine. Place the bottle in the middle of the table so that people can serve themselves. Don’t be stupid enough to pour wine for each person one by one; otherwise, what will those who come after have to drink? Rule 14: There is always one last drink to be had, so don’t let your glass stay empty. You can’t get away~ Rule 15: Be careful not to say anything foolish when drunk; don’t make big claims, don’t act improperly, don’t spit or wave your chopsticks around, don’t point with your fingers, don’t make noisy sounds while drinking soup, and don’t fart or burp. If you need to use the toilet, go ahead—no one will stop you. Rule 16: Don’t keep saying “I can’t drink” (if you do drink), so as to avoid being called hypocritical by others. Believe it or not, it’s actually possible to tell whether someone can drink or not. Rule 17: When a leader drinks with you, it’s to give you face. No matter how much the leader asks you to drink, you should take the first drink as a sign of respect. Remember to use both hands and keep the glass low. Rule 18: Peanuts are a good thing for those who drink alcohol. Stay sober; showing concern after drinking is essential. A glass of yogurt, a cup of hot water, or a warm towel all demonstrate your care