Marry such a woman as a wife

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1. There’s no need to be stunningly beautiful to the point where fish drown and geese fall from the sky, or where the moon shy away and flowers blush in presence of one’s beauty; that’s like a fairy descending to earth. Being ordinary is sufficient. Just imagine: if you pick a super beautiful woman to be your wife today, she might be taken away by some rogue man tomorrow and become another man’s lover! The appearance should not be poor; although it may not be pleasing to the eye, it certainly shouldn’t be something that makes one feel disgusted or nauseous at just one glance. II. One should have some morality: filial piety comes first; it is essential to show respect for one’s parents. One must possess a certain level of moral integrity. Otherwise, if one brings a shrewish woman home, tensions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will arise frequently, and the older parents might even die from stress. Moreover, if the neighbors see and hear about this, they will gossip everywhere, and such behavior is not suitable for a married couple. Living day after day in this manner, constantly causing trouble, no one can tolerate having such a woman as a wife. III. A little talent is enough; if one has great talent, it’s not necessary. Three dou of talent is sufficient to get by, but it’s obvious that one needs to be competent both in formal settings and in everyday tasks like cooking It’s truly remarkable – you can take care of your husband and children, as well as understand the principles of prenatal education. When guests arrive, you maintain your husband’s dignity. And when he is tired from writing or working, you can use your delicate hands to bring him comfort; it goes without saying that this creates a pleasant relationship between husband and wife. IV. Slightly strong. By strong, I mean physically robust, not muscularly imposing; healthy, not sickly. Such a person is able to endure hard work and take on responsibilities without complaint, rather than being a spoiled princess. Those that fall over at the slightest breeze must not be chosen; women with small buttocks cannot give birth to sons, so one must be careful and pick those that are stronger. Otherwise, find someone like Lin Daiyu – someone with a beauty as delicate as that of a flower under the moon, but who only knows how to cry all day long, with tears soaking her clothes. How could she withstand your rough treatment in bed? V. Have some courage. This is very important: don’t be too afraid to go out at night when it gets dark, but also don’t be reckless and dare to wander around during the day. Be a bit bolder, handle things without hesitation, in a decisive and straightforward manner. A woman without courage is timid and hesitant, and unable to accomplish anything. With courage, even if she encounters a pervert in the middle of the night, she can face the situation rationally and won’t be so fearful as to give in to pressure and surrender herself. A woman who can be terrified to death by just a mouse is usually a timid woman. VI. A certain degree of composure: By \"composure\" is meant grace and dignity. It is said that men should have such composure, as they can carry a lot within them; women too should possess some composure. After all, if a woman has a large belly due to pregnancy, can’t she still maintain dignity? Men had better stay far away from those women who make a big deal out of the smallest trivial matters, and who often use the word \"divorce\" to scare people. Such a woman lacks any sense of grace that is inherent in a woman; she’s typical of those who can’t think rationally. With long hair and limited understanding, it’s not impossible that one day, in a fit of anger, she might take poison like dichlorvos and commit suicide. VII. Strategy and planning. This refers to cunning tactics, but it can also mean plans or calculations. There is a Chinese saying: You won’t go poor from lack of food or clothing, but you will if you fail to make proper plans. You go out to work, and it’s up to your wife to take care of everything at home – handling groceries, cooking, and all the household chores. She knows how to manage a household well and is thrifty in her expenses. Those women who use their husbands’ hard-earned money to indulge in eating, drinking, entertainment, playing mahjong, buying new clothes, cosmetics, and other frivolous things are untrustworthy; no amount of salary or wealth can sustain such extravagance! The money spent on this flower is well spent. Not a penny should be spent on things that aren’t necessary! VIII. It’s interesting. Fun is very important in life; people should actively seek some enjoyment and create a bit of cheerfulness, which can help relieve stress and the tired atmosphere within the family. Every day is filled with sunshine as a new life begins, so fun is important, but not to an extreme. Think about it: those who go too far in flirting, using inappropriate methods to seek pleasure in another man’s bed – aren’t such women also very skilled at finding enjoyment? 9. Show some affection. Loyalty is not something expected only of men; it applies to women as well. When a man returns home after a tiring day, you shouldn’t demand sex from him based on your own needs. Show appropriate understanding for his stress and maintain a harmonious sexual relationship. Look at those women who are not faithful, and those lesbian women who cannot suppress their sexual desires – how many of them end up becoming the \"***\" of wealthy men, enjoying pleasure on their own. Faithfulness and dedication are admirable qualities, while infidelity and promiscuity deserve condemnation! X. A bit too young: It’s true that men prefer young women, but youth isn’t everything when it comes to appearance; inner youth is even more important. This is what we refer to as the beauty of youth with grace. Just as an old ox eats tender grass, a woman should always strive to maintain a fresh and attractive appearance. She should also stay close to her husband at all times; otherwise, how can she live up to the meaning of the word “husband”?