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I have been working in construction management for four years. I’m confused about the main tasks related to electrical work, bidding, as well as cost estimation and budgeting. I have worked on several large projects. In a half-dead state-owned construction company. Four years have passed, and despite living frugally, I still haven’t managed to save much money. ““When parents are around, one shouldn’t travel far,” but I can only go home once a year. I’m quite ashamed of my parents. It’s time to talk about marriage, but actually I’m not in a hurry; it’s my parents, grandparents, and grandmother who are anxious. I’m ashamed... I finally graduated from school; it’s time to be filial to my parents. But my parents spent all their life savings on buying a house for me… Sometimes I feel that I’ve made progress technically, and that I’m not bad at what I do… But what does that mean in the context of an entire life? It’s a rather awkward position to be in.
Take advantage of your youth to gain as much experience as possible. State-owned enterprises also have their advantages; they help to develop and train people, even in difficult circumstances. When you have the ability or experience to change your situation, you can contribute to your company or find another path – after all, you’re still making a contribution.
Don’t be too pessimistic; although the conditions in state-owned enterprises are somewhat worse, they serve as a platform for training talents without any cost. While you’re young, seize the opportunity to learn as much as you can, then go out into the world – your future will surely be boundless.
I work in construction as well; I’ve been in this field for almost five years now. My situation is similar to yours – I can only go home once a year. A man should strive to explore the world; how else can he gain experience? It is also beneficial for the construction companies involved, as it helps to train their staff; those who work for such companies develop strong coordination skills and are able to withstand hardships. There are many pivots in life; when you feel a sense of weight, it means your life has begun to mature.
Life is about the process; the experiences we accumulate become our wealth in the future. But no matter what we do in the future, it’s important to have a positive attitude!
Calling your parents more often is the best comfort for them. A true man aspires to achieve great things; I hope you work hard, as that will be the best way to repay your parents
I feel the same! Actually, there’s no need to overthink it. Set a goal for yourself; state-owned enterprises are also great places for personal development. Keep improving yourself by obtaining various certificates. Once your skills improve, will you still worry about not having good opportunities? Gold will shine wherever it is!
What’s the point of money? Just enjoy life.
A man’s aspirations reach far and wide; how can he get trained if he doesn’t go out? It is also beneficial for the construction companies involved, as it helps to train their staff; those who work for such companies develop strong coordination skills and are able to withstand hardships. There are many pivots in life; when you feel a sense of weight, it means your life has begun to mature.
One must have a positive attitude, seize the opportunities, and take control of oneself!
Personally, I think it’s enough to spend a few years in a construction company to become proficient; there’s no need to waste one’s youth on trivial matters all the time