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I am already working and my girlfriend is about to graduate. She doesn’t want to work and plans to go to graduate school. Is this good or bad for us?
To be honest, it’s not very good. Distance not only creates beauty, but also creates separation and loneliness. But at least the poster should persevere.
This post was last edited by kkndness on 2009-12-28 16:06 I think it works. First of all, these days, it is difficult for men to find a job after graduating from a bachelor's degree, let alone for women. Studying for a graduate degree can further enrich yourself and pave the way for your own job. You can use your graduate school years to further test the love between the two. Not being together now doesn't mean we won't be together in the future.
Many of my classmates are women studying in graduate school, while men are making money. You need to make more money because you will need it in the future.
From any angle, you should support her if she wants to go to graduate school. Even if they may not be together in the future, you must understand that love is not everything in your life. There is a saying that if the relationship lasts for a long time, it will not last forever.
Well, that makes sense, very good, thank you!
While you are still young, it is better to equip yourself first. In the future, you will still need a high degree of education to work.
You can consider it. Your girlfriend will go to graduate school, work in the future, get married and have children, right? You won’t have to work hard on academic qualifications anymore. But you have to be prepared. If your girlfriend breaks up with you, do you have an alternative plan?
The couple model of the man earning money and the woman studying is very classic and relatively stable. Girls in school generally don’t empathize and financially you can take care of the girl and wait for her to come out. You also have some savings, but it’s best to be in the same city otherwise haha
The future belongs to oneself, and love belongs to each other. If you want to live a lifetime, support each other.
After sharing my friends’ thoughts, I seem to have more reasons to persevere, and I am very happy inside. I am sincerely grateful!