The confusion of a woman born in the 1980s
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I am an ordinary girl born in the 1980s; I just graduated and started working this year. In college, I was silly and naive; I’ve never been in a relationship. However, as soon as I started working and things settled down a bit, I felt the pressure from my relatives and friends around me. Their goal is simple: to get married. As for me, I really do hope that someone I love and who loves me will appear soon, so that I can end my single status (I’m not noble). Because I’ve never felt this before, but now that I’m working, I’m really afraid of getting old (I’m just in my early 20s!) ! ! I really hadn’t thought about it before. ) When you get old, no one wants you. However, due to work constraints, I only interact with those from our own company. These days, as soon as you go online, you see a bunch of older single women. It’s not that I have anything against them, unlike the harsh opinions held by some people on the internet, but I really do want someone to be with me as we go through the ups and downs of life. But reality is. . . The New Year is coming soon. I used to be happy about it, but now I’m worried about what will happen if I can’t find it next year, or the year after that. I wonder if there are any friends who have had similar experiences; I really hope to get some advice from everyone, as I feel like I’m stuck in a dead end and don’t know how to get out of it. Thank you! ! !
Hehe. . Just let things take their course; the child is growing up, and the parents are worried
We’re the same, hehe; it’s just that I’m a guy. My situation is similar to yours; I really can’t stand being told over and over again to find a partner. Just a few months after graduating, people already start talking about getting married – it’s hard to imagine. I think what I should do now is focus on working hard, settling into my life, and establishing stability in my career before thinking about anything else. In college, it seemed pretty normal to find a partner before the age of 30! I’m striving to live a good life and working hard to ensure that I’ll have a wonderful wife in the future, haha
Sis on the second floor, I noticed that you pay attention to almost every post that’s just been posted – it’s clear you’re a huge supporter of Kaichuan!
LS has ulterior motives. . . Tell LZ in one sentence: there’s no need to worry about finding a spouse; broaden your horizons. Don’t look for peers. Don’t become an old maid. OVER.
LS, may I ask, why not look for someone from the same industry? Hehe, thank you
This can’t be forced; things will work out when the time is right! Only essential items, nothing unnecessary!
Whatever, I’m a bit puzzled too – is it abnormal not to have had a romantic relationship in college? I really want to know how much importance love holds in college life! ! !
Strive to live a good life, work hard to find a good husband in the future, so as to give the elders less worry, haha:lol
Haha! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
Girls’ emotions are hard to understand, but if you wait patiently, you’ll eventually find the right one~ This is somewhat different from boys... There’s a bit of machismo involved; women need stability, while boys, especially those who have just graduated from school, need to work hard to build their careers and improve themselves~ Over