I’m jealous of her
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Help: I introduced a job to my friend so she could go for an interview. Later, I found out that the salary and working conditions were very good. Suddenly I realized that she might end up doing better than me in the future, and that made me feel uncomfortable. I think I’m selfish, competitive, and jealous. Before, I always wanted to share happiness with my friends, wished them well, and liked to help them. How did I turn into this person? I hate who I am now. What should I do? Reply: Meeting people and choosing friends In life, we can’t choose who we meet; we have to let things take their course； But it is up to you to decide who to be friends with. What you think after helping a friend is like who we meet in life – there’s no choice, so there’s no need to worry too much about it ； But it is a process of choosing whether to be jealous of her or to bless her, whether to be friends with jealousy or with blessing. I think you can still make the decision yourself. Choose your friends carefully, as you might have to be friends with “it” for a lifetime.
You helped her; I’m sure she will be grateful to you. Giving roses to others leaves a pleasant fragrance in one’s own hands.
The original poster is quite absurd, but they’re slightly better than the one above them..
The original poster is too straightforward; it’s human nature. 1# zjy_007
:Hug: It’s human nature; everyone has desires. What’s lost in one place can be gained elsewhere
Keep a positive mindset, OP – improving yourself is the key; don’t focus your attention on the wrong things
Actually, the original poster’s thinking is quite normal; it’s human nature and there’s no need to feel self-reproachful. But one still needs to understand the principle in their heart. A netizen upstairs said that giving roses to others leaves a pleasant fragrance in one’s own hands. Since the original poster cannot go and work there themselves, is it better to give this opportunity to their good friends, or wait for someone who has little to do with them at all to get the chance? Multiple friends, multiple approaches
What belongs to one cannot be escaped, and what does not belong to one cannot be caught. What’s lost in the east is found in the west. That’s correct. Work hard.
Maybe many people have this mindset: being only half-human, yet others are stronger than themselves, hehe……
**This happens to everyone; just stay calm! If it’s people in the same profession, it’s understandable to feel a little jealous, but there’s no need for that when it comes to people from different industries! After all, the chances of switching to a completely different field are not high either!
Although the original poster doesn’t gain any immediate benefits, one can’t live without friends; the road ahead is long, and people always need to help one another