What does it feel like to break up?

Time is a good thing; try to forget it.

If we can avoid it, let’s avoid it; if we can ignore it, let’s ignore it. Find a game, play like crazy, work like crazy. Then, when the right person is found, a new relationship begins, with the hope that it will last forever.

Breaking up is definitely hard, but one has to go on living.

It depends on who suggests it. If it’s the other person who brings it up, then you’ll be the one to feel upset; there will likely be tension during the meeting, and it won’t be possible to ask if the other person is doing well (unless you wait until both of you have families before meeting again). If you’re the one to suggest it, then they’ll be the ones feeling uncomfortable; they’ll be afraid of being criticized or of having to deal with a complicated relationship that still remains unresolved. So it’s better not to meet at all. This is also why good friends or colleagues of the opposite sex don’t want to become boyfriend and girlfriend

The hardest thing isn’t to love or hate someone, but to forget them. Time is a good remedy; one must learn to maintain a calm mindset, staying unshaken

6# zhongying Forgetting is a sin; memory is a punishment. Humans are creatures who tend to forget easily, so memories become increasingly blurred over time. This is a way for humans to protect themselves. What you mentioned as difficult – well, the difficulty lies in trying to forget deliberately

Breaking up is like picking up a piece of chicken rib with chopsticks; before it even reaches your mouth, it accidentally falls to the ground. (1) Hey, just throw it away anyway; there’s not much meat in it anyway! (2) Ah, what a shame; after all, it’s just flesh!

7# mercuryme Then it’s better to choose not to deliberately try to forget

What is love? Love always wanders between being together and being apart. When they can’t meet, they miss each other; but once they can see each other, they start criticizing one another, and end up missing the times when they couldn’t be together. When they can’t meet, both people miss the good things about the other; yet when they do meet, they feel that there are many things about the other that they don’t like. When you can’t see him, you resolve to leave him, but once you meet him, your heart softens. When you couldn’t see him, you decided to give up everything for him; but now that you can finally meet him, you don’t have enough confidence to give up everything for him. When you can’t meet, you promise yourself to make him happy; but when you do meet, you forget your promise. When you can’t see each other, it’s a torment; and once you can meet, you torment one another. When you can’t see each other, you think you love him very much, but once you meet him, you realize you might not love him that much after all. When you can’t meet, you imagine doing many things with him. Only when you meet in person do you realize that the world imagined is indeed a bit more beautiful than reality. If you know meeting up is painful, why insist on seeing each other? Perhaps, this is one of the most beautiful contradictions in the world.

Breaking up means that two hands can no longer be held together; in that case, it’s better not to hold them. When climbing a tree, one must hold on tightly, otherwise one might fall down.