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1. Don’t underestimate anyone. 2. You don’t have that many viewers; don’t get so tired. 3. Be gentle with people and matters. Don’t lose your temper casually; no one owes you anything. 4. It’s very painful now, but if I look back in a while, I’ll realize that it wasn’t such a big deal after all. 5. Cut off ties with those who are hostile toward you. Only through breaking off friendships can true ones be formed. 6. Learn to be tolerant of those who hurt you, because they are pitiful; everyone has their own difficulties, and life is not easy for anyone. 7. Learn to let go; the tighter you hold on, the more pain you suffer. 8. Stay low-key; in making choices, there are always gains and losses. 9. Don’t try to make any excuses for yourself; no one wants to hear them when there’s a mistake. 10. Be cautious with your words; while learning to compromise, also stick to your most fundamental principles. 11. Effort does not necessarily yield results. Persistence may lead to losing even more. 12. Past events should not be forgotten, but they must be let go of. 13. Live lightly, and for everything, prepare for both the best and the worst outcomes. 14. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and practical. Don’t indulge in fantasies. Don’t worry needlessly. 15. Do not lie, because it will be exposed one day. 16. Behind someone’s polished appearance, there may be a lot of pain that isn’t known to others. 17. Try to enrich yourself as much as possible. Don’t stop learning*. No matter what you learn* – languages, cooking skills, various abilities. 18. Pay attention to your own conduct; you are your child’s first teacher. 19. Be filial to one’s parents. It’s not just about talking; making a few more calls is also a good thing. 20. Love your parents, because they gave you life and are also the most selfless people who love you. 21. Sometimes it’s necessary to be a bit realistic and hypocritical, because otherwise it’s hard to get by. 22. Control your temper; sometimes you need to stay silent on purpose, as impulsivity can lead to actions that cannot be undone. 23. No matter when or what you are doing, think. 24. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a second chance to betray you again. 25. Everyone has their limits. Especially trust. 26. Know how to listen to others’ advice. 27. Keep what others say in your mind, but keep what is yours in your heart. 28. Try not to talk about gossip about colleagues and friends. 29. Believing in Buddhism and in karma, one realizes that human power is insignificant in the face of true karma. 30. Accept calmly the gifts that life brings you, whether good or bad. 31. To truly understand the meaning of impermanence, when you are in pain, remember that this pain is not eternal; when you are happy, remember that this happiness is also not eternal. 32. Be happy, be cheerful, be resilient, be warm, and be sincere with others. 33. Read when you feel empty and bored, but be sure to have your own life goals and plans. 34. Be fully aware of the weaknesses of human nature, but believe in sincere love and always hold a pure longing for it. 35. Do not rely too much on people other than yourself, because only you will not abandon yourself. 36. Always stay hopeful about life, and face difficulties and hardships with a smile. 37. Read more books, and read good books. 38. Eat less, but eat well. 39. Gu Long once said that girls who love to laugh don’t tend to have bad luck. 40. Make more friends, good friends. A woman must have close friends. 41. Remember, a good friend is someone who truly feels happy for you when you are doing well ； She’s truly worried for you because you’re not doing well. 42. Have dreams, even if they are distant. 43. Strive to love someone. Giving does not necessarily yield rewards ； Without effort, there will be no rewards; don’t expect miracles to happen. 44. Making promises is a wonderful thing, but wonderful things often don’t become reality. 45. Everyone has their own distinct opinions and personality; do not try to change others, and likewise, do not let others change you. If it’s changed, it’s no longer oneself. 46. There is nothing perfect, nor are there any perfect people; the key is to know exactly what one wants. To get what you want, you will surely lose something else. If you want everything, you will end up getting nothing. 47. The most fragile thing in this world is life; good health is very important. 48. God is fair to everyone. 49. Don’t try to control others; don’t expect them to understand you. 50. Live in the present; don’t waste your current life by dwelling on the past or longing for the future. 51. Never forget your roots, no matter when or what happens. 52. Be sincere, calm, generous, tolerant, and maintain a balanced mindset. 53. Learn to forget; it’s good to be easy to forget. 54. Be optimistic and positive; smile more and look in the mirror often. 55. Believe what he says, but don’t take it seriously. 56. Be cautious about everything. 57. Don’t be overly smart. 58. Make your own decisions. Then be ready to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the start that there is no remedy for regret in this world. 59. For those you don’t like, you can respond with a silent smile ； For someone you like, it doesn’t matter what happens, because your affection will inevitably show through. 60. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation! 61. One must learn to be patient and persistent! 62. There is no true love in this world… Time can dilute everything. 63. Don’t be like a hedgehog; avoid making enemies wherever possible. No one stays together for life, and there’s no need to hold grudges over certain things. 64. Sometimes it’s necessary to listen to the opinions of those around you, as doing so helps to prevent yourself from getting hurt. 65. Only by forgetting the past can there be a new beginning. 66. This world is very unfair. 67. Don’t rely too much on friends; human nature has an evil side to it. 68. Love is beautiful; believe in love. If one doesn’t even believe in love, wouldn’t life be too bitter? 69. To gain one thing, one must surely lose another. 70. Pain helps one grow; it is an opportunity for progress, a challenge. Don’t be afraid of painful things; they have a positive side as well. 71. People are lonely, and the only way to ease the pain it causes is to accept it calmly. 72. Those who have not experienced it can never understand these principles, but it’s still good to listen to them. 73. One need not be beautiful, nor cute, nor gentle, but one must be honest and kind. 74. Love all beautiful things, praise them, and enjoy the goodness they bring. 75. When difficulties arise, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom. 76. One should be brave enough to admit one’s mistakes and take responsibility for them. 77. Love your family, your friends, your partner, your children, but truly live for yourself. 78. Never worry about what has happened or what hasn’t. Worrying about things that have already happened is pointless; as for those that haven’t happened, relying on speculation cannot tell us what will happen, and it only adds to unnecessary worry. 79. Don’t keep pouring out your troubles and revealing your vulnerability in front of others. 80. Don’t rely on others; have goals and aspirations – it has nothing to do with age. 81. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and practical. Don’t indulge in fantasies. Don’t worry needlessly. 82. Learn to think clearly, be aware of your own insignificance, and avoid self-indulgence. The first to shoot is the one who gets hit; in everything, don’t try to be the first, because you’re not as strong as you think! 83. Everyone is an **individual; truly, no one can survive without the other! 84. Do not overestimate your influence within a group, because when you decide to leave, you will realize that even without you, the sun still rises! 85. Society is hierarchical, and many things are unfair. Don’t complain, because it’s useless.