Eight sentences that can only be understood after the age of 30
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1. If you love, love deeply. Give up, completely. Waiting is, in itself, a mistake. 2. Think more positively, and you’ll suffer less. 3. Many things are only understood after experiencing them, just like emotions: it is only after missing out and feeling regret that one realizes that life doesn’t require so much unnecessary attachment. 4. Autumn, a cruel season, reaps both the mature and the unripe alike. Everything will vanish with the wind at the turn of autumn and winter; only those memories, bright as a mountain stream, will forever flow in my heart… 5. Cherish the happiness right before you, don’t wait until you’ve lost it to regret it. Perhaps, in your entire life, there will only be one person who truly cares about you. 6. Life is like a train, with all kinds of people coming and going on it. You might also meet many people on the train who you think are destined to be part of your life, but the train will eventually stop, and there will always be people getting on and off this train of life. When you get off, you wave goodbye; once you turn around, all you can remember is the way home. 7. There are people you watch your whole life, yet ignore your whole life. Some people, just a glance at them, can affect your entire life. Some people are happy for you out of enthusiasm, only to be ignored by you. Some people bring you brief happiness, but in return take control of your thoughts. Some people have held on to unrequited feelings for N years, only to be rejected by you for those same N years. 8. Don’t owe your friends too much, because you might never have the chance to repay them.
I understand some of it. How should I put it? I feel I’m still young. Actually, I’m not old to begin with.
It seems I’m still young and can’t understand it
It seems I’m getting old; I not only understand everything, but that’s also how I think and act...
Thirty seems to still not be enough; some people at thirty are still unmarried. Many have not experienced marriage, family life, or having children, nor have they faced the challenges of social responsibilities, family duties, the trials of marriage, child-rearing, or the demands of a career. To attain such insights and a such state of mind in life, one is usually around forty years old.
To attain such insights and a such state of mind in life, one is usually around forty years old.
I feel like crying! To gain more is to lose even more!