Let the newcomers laugh; ignore the old ones’ tears
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Yesterday I received calls from two classmates announcing their weddings, which means another half of my monthly salary is gone. Ugh, frustrating! But it’s more of a sense of reflection! I am someone who thinks ahead in times of peace, as the world is full of changes. So whenever I see something happen to people around me, I wonder what I would do if I encountered a similar situation. Among the classmates who are getting married, one of them had a boyfriend who had been with a girlfriend for seven years and lived together with her for five years. This guy keeps telling my classmate that he doesn’t like her, and every time the topic of breaking up comes up, his ex-girlfriend becomes desperate. So they only officially broke up after that girl graduated and went to work in another city. I don’t know that girl; I’m not aware of the details either. But I just feel it’s unfair, yet the world is inherently unfair. I sometimes think about myself. What should I do? My boyfriend and I love each other, but society is changing so rapidly that people often can’t resist temptation. I don’t know how I would react if we were to break up. My boyfriend often says things like, \"I’m so capable; I’m still very popular at work. If I break up with you, you’ll cry non-stop.\" It was just a joke, but I do care about it. So we have always been financially independent, and I work hard as well, hoping to achieve something in my career; of course, I’m not trying to be a strong woman. I just hope to be able to support myself. If one day I have to raise the child on my own, it would be enough if I can provide them with a good education. I’m not married yet, so it’s a bit premature to worry about such things. But when it comes to relationships, it’s hard to say who’s right or wrong – people change too quickly. Relying on others is not as good as relying on oneself. This is the truth. So one must be kind to oneself! While being kind to the other person, one should also reserve a space for themselves in their heart.
If I got calls about two classmates getting married, my entire monthly salary would be gone! !
A girlfriend of seven years, with whom I have lived together for five years. ............ Why not get married? An incomprehensible generation gap. :)
These days, so much money is required as a gift for weddings – 500 each time?
Support for economic independence has become deeply rooted. . .
Yes, women can only be truly independent if they are economically independent; otherwise, there will be inequality in the roles of men and women at home, with one party becoming dependent on the other. But I think a normal, stable job is sufficient – strong-willed women are not suitable for most men
How much is the contribution? 1000? There are many characters inside, it’s a bit chaotic
Haha, when our classmates got married, we only gave 200
3# Desheng: There are too many social temptations. People’s thoughts vary greatly at different stages.
Love is the most steadfast yet also the most unreliable thing in this world~~~ Life is realistic, while love is elusive~~~ Let’s strive for stability in order to live properly~~