I want to get married, but I don’t have a house; reality is really cruel.
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I’ve been dating my girlfriend for four years and want to get married, but I can’t afford a house right now. She and I both work at a chemical company; our monthly salary is around 1,600, so in a year that amounts to nearly 30,000. I’ve been working for three years now and still don’t have the money for a down payment; it’s really sad when I think about it. Although my girlfriend didn’t insist on having a house before getting married, I still feel it’s not right.
Let’s work hard together. In today’s society, there are very few girls like her; cherish her dearly
What was said upstairs is right; these days, there aren’t many girls who don’t feel pressured to have a house. Cherish it properly~
Let’s encourage each other, LZ – hard work leads to success
You’re a real man, but let me tell you – you can’t support a family on your own. Let’s work together; also, your parents need to contribute something as well. You can pay them back once you have money
It’s just as the person above said – you need to cherish such things. I have a male classmate who got married right after graduating. His family wasn’t well-off, but his girlfriend didn’t mind that at all. Now, in May, they have added another son. Hehe, I always say that he has already accomplished two-thirds of the important things in life; now he should strive to achieve the goal of providing a home for his wife and children! Look at our classmates – it seems that as long as two people are together, happy and working hard, and as long as they have that sense of responsibility in their hearts, a house with a roof over it will eventually be available. Why do we have to have it right now?
OP, your girlfriend is really great; you must cherish her very much. There aren’t many women like her these days! I’m not asking you to buy a house or a car; just treat him well!
I envy the OP for meeting such a great girl. Keep it up, OP!
Yes, there aren’t many girls like her anymore; cherish her.
Keep it up, OP! Although life might be a bit tough, I’m sure you’re very happy!