Those born in the 80s, once you achieve it, you become mature

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1. Go to bed before 10:00 every day, and get up before 7:30 every day； 2. Remind yourself every day not to forget your dreams ； 3. When you have time, read more books and learn more; become a person with literary literacy. Don’t waste your time on silly and absurd things ； 4. Exercise more; without a healthy body, nothing else matters. Men and women should be kind to themselves ； 5. Strive to learn the skills needed to earn money; money is the foundation for living and represents one’s dignity as a human being ； 6. Go home often to see your mother, and call your siblings regularly; family affection is the most precious feeling ； 7. Learn to be a good listener; pay more attention to others’ feelings and draw lessons from them ； 8. Learn to play, and learn to play with taste ； 9. Don’t take work-related worries home; they won’t solve any problems, and bringing them home will only create more worries ； 10. Those who are dedicated to their work ； 11. Learn to flatter your superiors, wear a smiling face, avoid being malicious, keep quiet, and think before acting ； 12. Learn to delay things; those who are kind are exploited, and those who are gentle are ridden by others ； 13. Do not associate with people who lack good manners, to avoid being influenced by them ； 14. Don’t associate with stingy people; it’s always you who ends up suffering ； 15. Crush those who act arrogantly in one fell swoop, so that they can’t be arrogant again! 16. Engaging in romantic relationships with married people or those who are already living together is mostly a waste of words; it yields no results in the end and only undermines one’s own life** ； 17. Seek those who share your values, those who love you; cherish them and protect them wholeheartedly for a lifetime ； 18. Don’t waste your feelings on someone who has no hope. Those who value appearance are always fools; it is only when one is covered in wounds that they realize the person who truly loves them has been by their side taking care of them all along, while they thought happiness was far away ； 19. Don’t compromise too much with someone; excessive compromise is not love – it’s being foolish ； 20. Be realistic – love always seems pale in the face of reality. Romantic love belongs not to men, but to women ； 21. Be thoughtful about entering marriage; prepare well to become a good husband or wife ； 22. Be attentive in life, and make sincere efforts to create a wonderful family – a safe and warm one ； 23. Don’t always try to be a savior; even if you are one, there’s no need to save the whole world. Poor people must have some detestable qualities; they’re all Judas ； 24. Don’t lend money to others easily; many of those who borrow it don’t intend to repay it ； 25. One should understand that those who have read many books do not necessarily possess much knowledge, while those who have never attended school are not necessarily illiterate ； 26. Don’t judge people by their appearance, especially women; those who are beautiful might be demons, while those who are ugly could be angels. Heaven is always fair ； 27. Be yourself again, live for yourself ； 28. One should know how to dress well; being sloppy is not a cool trait – it’s the result of a lack of manners ； 29. Go your own way; let NB talk himself hoarse ； 30. Earn other people’s money – let poverty go to hell ；