If a man loves you, you will definitely be able to feel it

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Wei once said: If a man loves you, you will definitely be able to feel it. Sometimes we prefer to believe that a man is too scared, too nervous, too insecure, too attached to his ex-girlfriend, too sensitive, too busy, has too many childhood traumas, too much family pressure, or is too tired… rather than facing the simple truth. Yes, he’s not too busy, he’s not injured, he doesn’t have any childhood traumas, he hasn’t had any accidents, he’s not about to become president, he doesn’t have amnesia due to a concussion, his phone didn’t fall into hot pot, he doesn’t suffer from forgetfulness, and it’s certainly not the case that you’re strong enough that he doesn’t need to worry about you – he simply just isn’t that interested in you. So someone asked, how can one believe that he likes you? In this world where all rules can be broken and all morals are gradually fading away, how can one maintain firm belief? Please forget all the rules I mentioned over half an hour ago. Never trust the rules; trust your own feelings. I think this era needs a bit more self-deception – telling ourselves that he really loves us, encouraging us to commit to someone wholeheartedly, without any doubts, questions, speculation, or hesitation. Do you still remember what we said, “Run hard, fall spectacularly”? In love as well, please run bravely, firmly, and with all your might; and even if you fall, you can say that you were magnificent. It’s my favorite line from \"He’s Just Not That Into You\". It was said by a girl named Gigi, after misunderstanding that a boy liked her; after confessing her feelings, she realized it was a mistake, and after being mocked by the boy, she said those words. Gigi said, “I might be too sensitive and make a big deal out of small things, but at least that means I still care.” Do you think you’ll win just by using all these rules to see through girls? You might not get hurt again, nor put yourself in embarrassing situations, but you will never experience that kind of love again either. You’re not winning, *alone. Perhaps I’ve done many silly things, but I know that as I am, I’ll find the right person faster than you will. Trust your feelings and love your life. Perhaps a so-called happy ending doesn’t mean getting a perfect guy; maybe it simply means moving forward with the hope of never giving up. Running through tears, falling in splendor. A sea of people; falling in love as I walk.