In life, one should seek a true friend with sincerity

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　　As long as one puts in effort, a talented person will eventually find someone who can recognize their abilities. Some people with talent often lament that they were born at the wrong time and are unable to realize their ambitions. In fact, \"one must plant seeds in order to reap rewards.\" As long as one has the ability, there will always be opportunities to showcase that talent. If one keeps blaming others, it only leads to frustration without solving anything; why not think of ways to carry out a \"comeback from a desperate situation\"? 　　 I. The method of self-promotion: If you can’t find a mentor, why not “self-promote” yourself? Many people have achieved success by being brave enough to present themselves to others. 　　 　　 II. The method of improving capabilities: Continuously make use of time and opportunities to learn, so as to remain proficient in one’s professional field at all times. Gather information from various sources to ensure that one’s abilities and skills do not become obsolete in society. 　　 　　 III. Star-Sucking Technique: In wuxia novels, there is often a so-called \"star-sucking technique\" that allows one to absorb another person’s martial skills or internal energy. The star-sucking technique mentioned here works in a similar way – it involves absorbing others’ successful methods and principles, then organizing and integrating them into one’s own skills. 　　 　　 IV. The continuous learning method: Listen to speeches by renowned experts or take courses in management, marketing, psychology, etc., to keep improving oneself at all times. This way, one can stay committed to learning at work and be well-prepared to step forward and perform whenever the opportunity arises. 　　 　　 V. The frog jump method: Those who approach life by taking steady steps one at a time are well-suited to the general environment, but those who think outside the box and are innovative use the frog jump method to break free from conventions; for example, Bill Gates, the richest man in the United States, did not have a university degree yet performed better than those who did. However, the frog jump method is suitable for those who are not constrained by convention or influenced by worldly opinions – it results in either great success or great failure.