Words that instantly sober one up

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1. There is never anyone you can’t do without; just because you can’t do without someone now doesn’t mean you’ll always be unable to do without them. There is nothing you can’t give up on; what you don’t give up might give up on you first. 2. To deal with hypocrites, don’t scold them or expose them; instead, let them continue to act hypocritically in sorrow, while pretending to know nothing. So slowly, many people will come to you on their own to tell you how hypocritical they are. 3. To deal with selfish people, it’s not about hating them or ignoring them; rather, it’s about gradually moving away from them, truly distancing oneself from them in one’s heart, and then pretending to know nothing. If they go to find someone else, you’ll find that many people stay away from them. 4. Apart from parents, no one gives without expecting anything in return. A lover being kind to you is based on harmonious love, while a friend being kind to you is based on mutual interests and alleviating loneliness. As for the others, there’s no need to say anything. 5. Living alone is difficult, but one must learn to be independent and not rely on others too easily. This is to ensure that you can continue to live a good life even when the people around you leave. 6. When you are sick, you need to take care of yourself; you can’t wait for someone else to take care of you. By then, you will find that both your body and mind are in great distress. 7. Learn to keep in more frequent contact with your parents and communicate with them, and learn to listen more to those who are older than you. One must learn to be patient; there is nothing that one cannot endure. No matter how wrong others are, there’s no reason to punish oneself for their mistakes. 8. Whatever others say to you, no matter their intentions, you can believe it, but not entirely. However, when others are speaking, try to listen carefully and respond thoughtfully – that is a sign of respect for them. 9. Don’t easily test your good friends, or else you’ll end up either very disappointed or labeled as a \"nutcase + overthinker.\" 10. Don’t be too sentimental towards others, even if you are genuinely sentimental. Others may not be able to understand your sensitivity, nor do they have the obligation or responsibility to do so. In that case, the outlet you want to use turns into a source of humiliation and further pain for you. 11. Under no circumstances should one toy with others; those who play with others will in turn be played with. No matter how clever you are, you’re not the best. 12. Do not seize what belongs to others, but do not either allow others to take what is yours. This is a principle. 13. There is no need to be jealous of others. There are five reasons for this: (1) Others may indeed put in more effort than you do, you just don’t see it. (2) These things can only bring temporary satisfaction, not lasting satisfaction; it’s better not to have them. (3) There are game rules here that you won’t be able to handle, and even those who can play them get quite tired. (4) If there are things in you that are inferior to others’, there must be things that are better than others’; just wait for the right opportunity. (5) Don’t compete for these, and you’ll have more friends. 14. If you can help others, do so whenever possible. I can’t help, so don’t force yourself. 15. For those who like to go against you, you should first reflect objectively on yourself, make corrections, and eliminate the reasons within yourself. Secondly, see just how immature they are – let them be unhappy on their own. 16. For those whose lifestyle is different from one’s own, keep a distance, live one’s own life, avoid disturbing others, and don’t expect them to change. 17. 11 Rules for Romance: (1). Approach love with objectivity. When you’re together, you don’t necessarily need to have a purpose or goal; the future is uncertain. Don’t demand that others be responsible for everything to you. (2). Don’t get together lightly just to escape loneliness; be responsible for your sincerity toward others, and ensure that your love is in line with your conscience. (3). Be trusting with your lover; otherwise, don’t treat them as one. (4). Since they are together out of love, they should cherish this relationship earnestly and give everything they can; the outcome isn’t important – what matters is to have a good start and a good end. (5). As for feelings that are like unrequited love, if you’re not sure, it’s better not to reveal them. Over time, you will come to see them more lightly and grow as a person. (6) The people you love are also ordinary people; learn to forgive their mistakes, and learn to accept when they point out your flaws and shortcomings. (7). Boys should not easily make promises, and girls should not readily take on tasks that require someone else to make promises or take responsibility for them. Learn to protect yourself to some extent. (8). When faced with unsolicited confessions from others, listen patiently; do not accept them, but try to cause as little harm as possible. (9). Even with intense love, give yourself and your partner some space so that you can see things clearly and live freely. (10). Show respect and humility toward one’s lover’s parents, elders, and friends. This is something a person of quality should do. (11). Once you break up, don’t go interfering in each other’s lives. When you meet, don’t be full of resentment; just smile generously...