Find a partner and tell them I work in research; they’ll look down on me. . . I feel very wronged. .
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Dear sea friends, I’m 25 years old this year. My family is pressing me, and my relatives feel that it’s time for me to get married by now. I thought they were right, so I found a partner. She isn’t particularly attractive, and when she heard that I work in research and design, she showed obvious disdain, and her words were full of sarcasm toward me. Ugh! Helplessly, I’m back again~~ I never thought that in these days, people in the tech field are viewed so poorly by women. . I want to cry. .
Research design has sunk to such a level – what a great misfortune! But there’s nothing worth lingering on about such women either
That woman is right; where in China are there people engaged in research? Aren’t you lying? . .
Hehe! The second floor is so funny! An affordable man refers to one with average height, a traditional hairstyle, and an appearance that is easily forgettable ； Has a gentle personality; his salary is given to his wife without any compensation ； No smoking, no drinking, no turning the device off, no gambling, no going to bars; no close female friends ； Monthly salary of 2,000 to 10,000 yuan, with the ability to pay a down payment on a house ； Men who generally work in industries such as education, IT, machinery manufacturing, and technology. Most should fall into this category. Everyone lives in the room that suits them! A woman asks for the man she desires!
Reply to 1# lsj5289: Why the rush? I’m already 26 and still don’t have a partner! If a man doesn’t have a stable career, seeking a partner is nothing but bringing shame upon himself. When we’re powerful enough, it’ll be our turn to insult her. I just can’t believe that you’ll still have an unremarkable career by the age of 40! I guess the original poster is from the north, right? This mindset is not advisable; constantly thinking about getting married is not a good thing. You need to withstand the pressure in this regard. It would be great if you waited until you had a career established before taking a young girl in her 20s, right? :lol
Reply to 5# yanfang0819: Yeah, that’s right; what you said makes sense! ! I’m from the north, haha!
Reply to 6# lsj5289: I’m from the north too. The characteristics of people from the north are that we are down-to-earth and honest; another characteristic is our strong adherence to traditional values. This is very unfavorable for us to survive in society. Hehe
Reply to 7# yanfang0819: That’s right! But I think it’s better to be honest in life. When it comes to marriage, the traditional view in my family is that a man should get married and have children by the age of 29; for us older men, it’s indeed quite stressful! I’m afraid that people will bring this up when I go home for the New Year! !
Reply to 8# lsj5289: Haha, I’m scared too. But this matter can’t be rushed either.
Society is very impetuous; there’s no need to feel inferior. That woman is not on the same path as you. Just as some liberal arts students think that engineering students are rigid-minded, engineering students consider them frivolous and believe that it’s enough to just find one that suits you.
Doing research well is really impressive! Those with different paths cannot work together.