Don’t say you’re naive; I’ll teach you how to recognize people now

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1 To judge a man’s taste, look at his shoes. 2 To tell whether a woman has inner qualities, one must observe how she walks. 3 To assess a person’s qi and blood, one should look at their hair. 4 To gauge a person’s intentions, one must look into their eyes. 5 To judge a person’s worth, one must look at his opponents. 6 To see a person’s true nature, one should look at their close friends. 7 To judge a person’s character, one must look at how well they write. 8 To tell if a person is happy, don’t look at their smile; look at their expression the moment they wake up in the morning. 9 To judge a person’s character, one should see how they handle failure and being betrayed. 10 To assess the relationship between two people, one should look at the level of tension shown by the other party in times of crisis. 11 If you want to know whether someone really loves you, it depends on whether they think of you when they are happy, rather than when they are sad. 12 If you want to know whether someone is your confidant, it depends on whether they’re in tune with you mentally; it doesn’t mean you have to tell them everything. 13 If you want to know whether someone is a true friend, see if they would go to great lengths to help you in times of trouble, rather than just eating and drinking with you every day. 14 If you want to know whether a person is kind-hearted, you need to see if they like small animals. 15 If you want to know whether a person is well-mannered, see if he gives up his seat on the bus to the elderly and children. 16 If you want to know whether someone has integrity, see if they’re prone to taking advantage of small opportunities for personal gain. 17 If you want to know whether a person is magnanimous, you need to see if they speak ill of others behind their back. 18 If you want to know whether someone is lying, you need to look at their eyes while they speak; their eyes reveal everything. 19 If you want to know whether someone cares about you, see if they remember what you’ve said. 20. If you want to know whether someone cares about you, see if they think to remind you to put on more clothes when it gets cold.
21. If you want to know how much you mean to that person, see if they remember your birthday or other important dates.
22. To tell whether a man is fastidious, check if his shoes are clean.
23. If you want to know whether a man is worthy of your love, look at whether he has kindness and a sense of responsibility—not at his status or wealth.
24. If you want to know whether a guy is worth loving, focus on his inner qualities rather than his appearance; see if he’s adorable because he’s handsome, rather than being handsome just because he’s adorable.
Girls should also: When faced with urgent matters, speak slowly ； Important matters, clearly stated ； It’s a trivial matter, said humorously ； For things we’re not sure about, it’s better to speak cautiously ； Things that haven’t happened – stop making up stories ； Don’t talk nonsense about things you can’t do ； Things that hurt others should not be spoken of ； Things I hate – say it about the thing itself, not the person ； Happy things should be shared depending on the occasion ； Don’t talk about sad things to everyone you meet ； When it comes to other people’s affairs, speak carefully ； For your own matters, listen to what your heart has to say ； For now, I’ll just do it and see what happens ； Things of the future will be discussed in the future ； One need not reveal everything to others; leave some room for them, and preserve some decency for oneself. When holding others accountable, don’t be overly strict; leave some room for them, and also show some tolerance toward yourself. One need not flaunt all one’s talents; leave some room for others, and retain some depth for oneself. There’s no need to show off fully; leave some room for others, and keep some reserve for yourself. There’s no need to invite everyone; leave some room for others, and show modesty toward yourself. There’s no need to have the upper hand in everything; leave some room for others, and some tolerance for yourself.