Focus on doing well in your career first; then you won’t have to worry about finding a girlfriend. Then where have you put the person you like?
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Today, I argued with my mom again because of playing games. Today, when my mom was about to take the computer outside and smash it, my head rushed with blood instantly. I really wish she would do just that. While training me, my mind was still filled with thoughts about DOTA – how the powerful Arrow of Wind could be used to kill those annoying stealthy bounty hunters. Do I have to spend my days like this from now on? It’s been almost three months since graduation. For 3 months, I’ve basically not studied at all*. The book has hardly been touched at all. Ideals, dreams, jobs, and careers all seem out of reach these days. I’m completely broken; it’s the first time since graduating that I’ve felt this depressed. It’s annoying – the work is annoying, living together with my sister is annoying; it’s annoying that people keep using my computer and leave lots of cigarette butts in my room, filling it with a smoke smell that prevents me from sleeping for hours at night. It’s also annoying that my mom keeps pressing me to find a girlfriend and go on dates or something like that. I talked on the phone with a girl I like today (it seems like she knows I like her). She advised me to focus on building a successful career first; then I wouldn’t have to worry about finding a girlfriend. But after doing that, how should one place the girl they like?
Alas, it seems that everyone understands these fundamental principles, but how many can actually put them into practice? But I advise the original poster to play Dota less; haven’t you heard the saying, “Lonely men play Dota, lonely women wear stockings”? It’s better to do what’s appropriate for one’s age – go out and meet more people; sometimes opportunities come about by chance. .
A career is the foundation of life. Being together doesn’t mean that one can spend a lifetime just kissing and cuddling; every aspect of daily life – clothing, food, shelter, and transportation – requires effort. One cannot do without the support of a career
Reply to 2# hjk312: Well, I already deleted DOTA and HF yesterday.
Parents everywhere have deep concerns for their children; I hope you won’t disappoint your family! ! Work hard and achieve amazing results!
Brother has also been playing WOW for over 5 years; he’s stopped playing now – he wants to read books instead!
Reply to 5# liuyang9701: Well, keep working hard.