Feeling lost emotionally; seeking comfort!
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Some time ago, I saw many beachgoers struggling with relationship issues; I even joked about them at the time. Who would have thought that it would be my turn today! Well, the day before yesterday I had a dream in which a classmate from college (I tried to pursue her for a long time but failed; please don’t laugh) was not doing well and seemed to be being bullied. My heart immediately became uneasy! I’ve been struggling with this question: should I give up my current life to help her? Please, dear friends, show me the way. May those who are kind and compassionate help me in this difficult situation. Amitabha. . . .
Sofa: It seems I really like sitting on the sofa. Is your college classmate your first love? Or is she your closest friend, or someone special in your life? What if her life is closely connected to yours, and your emotions are also tied to hers? If you could give up your current life and were sure that you could live a better life at least in some aspects, then go ahead. But otherwise, think carefully before making any decision! ! Some things are like illusions; when you actually come into contact with them, you realize that it was all just a product of imagination – the pleasant memories from those times have now all changed. .
If you dream that she is not doing well, I suggest you continue to dream of bringing her happiness. If you know in reality that she’s not doing well, I suggest you quickly have a dream to bring her happiness.
Reply to 1# cqfblue: Are you still not awake? It’s already past four in the afternoon! Did you stay up all night?
Reply to 2# llyy0327: It seems we had a brief conversation 5 or 6 years ago, so now I’m really stuck. I’m asking those who can help to give me some advice! :dizzy:
Reply to 3# Raise a cup to invite the moon: Continuing to dream is a good idea, but dreams are hard to control – what if you have a wrong dream? I earnestly beg the master for some guidance
I was in the same field as the original poster when I was studying; this is just my personal opinion for reference: it’s not advisable to give up a good working environment just to pursue a girl. Unless she is already your wife or is determined to marry only you. Reality isn’t like TV dramas; by doing this, she will be under a lot of pressure, and it’s not necessarily a good idea to act in this way until everything is settled. A classmate did this before, and the outcome wasn’t **. I’m not afraid of being laughed at – N years ago, after starting work, I met a girl who had done something similar; in the end she became someone else’s bride. I gave up my career, my income dropped sharply, and I had to start over from scratch. Keep any feelings of reluctance or concern buried in your heart.
Reply to 4# huawei: I woke up from that dream early, but I’m afraid I’ll keep having such dreams, so I’m very conflicted! I’m confused, so incredibly confused!
Reply to 5# cqfblue: Okay, I’m an idiot. .
Reply to 9# llyy0327: While others are still dreaming, don’t go and wake them up~ Relationships are really unreliable
According to Godi’s experience, there are only four words: Talk later ~~~~