My wife’s resignation letter to **

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My husband’s lover: I don’t know how he introduces himself legally speaking, since he’s still considered my husband. I also don’t know your last name, but if I were to have someone investigate, I might find out everything. I don’t want to do that for now; love is beautiful, and I don’t want to ruin the relationship between you two. It is said that love is selfish, but after being tormented for a long time, one no longer knows whether it hurts or not; to me, my husband is just a noun. Once his whole family found out about your relationship, they all opposed it; even his 78-year-old mother called you a little witch! Woman**! If you don’t believe it, you can come to my house; he has been taking care of his mother these past three months, as agreed upon by his siblings. If you come to my house, I welcome you, and we can even have a few drinks together; my husband’s ex-girlfriend can testify to that. Perhaps as marriage lasts on, love dies in its grave, leaving only duty and family ties. I believe that as a woman, you will understand what I am saying today when you reach a certain age. Over these past few months, my husband has often found various excuses to go out and date you, and he also spends a lot of time on phone calls with you. I tried hard to stop him, but it only had the opposite effect. At home, he also gets angry often; whenever something doesn’t meet his expectations, he becomes upset. Even when sleeping next to me at night, he keeps sighing constantly. His heart is elsewhere, showing that he truly has feelings for her! It shows you’re very lucky! How many men who have extramarital affairs outside actually feel genuine emotions? Your young body and knowledge attracted him! But how long can this appeal last? I remember that when his child was a few years old, he began an affair with a married woman and had sexual relations with her (as confirmed by his friends); this affair lasted for about three months. During the years when I was working part-time in business, I met another single woman in her twenty-five or twenty-six years old. The two of them had sexual relations at her home, and their relationship lasted for a little over a year. As I remember, you were his third extramarital lover; therefore, I hope you can keep him interested in you for a long time. Now, I no longer care about where my husband has gone; he still needs to fulfill his obligations before the divorce. You might ask, since he’s in such a state, why doesn’t he propose divorce on his own? What I want to say is that it’s for the sake of the child; I don’t want to give him an incomplete home. After all, in his eyes, I am still a pretty good father. Some time ago I tried my best to save this family, but now it seems pointless; rather than pretending everything is fine when it’s not, it’s better to let things take their course. Those who want to leave should do so, and those who stay will stay on their own. If you and he can enter the besieged city this time, then I congratulate you! I can also be completely free and start my new life. Before getting divorced, I want to tell you a few things so that you can be mentally prepared. 1. His whole family opposes your relationship; they all say that if a divorce occurs, he will have to leave without anything, and that for the sake of the children, there’s nothing else to do but accept that. But you should be secretly pleased, for after all you have taken away his eighteen years of affection for me. 2. After marriage, it’s normal if he often talks about his ex-wife in front of you, as that’s due to preconceived notions; in his mind, there are always some things that concern him. 3. He has many friends, enjoys having fun, and loves the outside world; you need to be tolerant. However, you can save money on meals, but you have to cover the cost of cards for him and preserve his manly reputation. 4. After marriage, you must completely cut off all contact with your boyfriend with whom you have lived together for many years; men, especially those who are aware of your past, are particularly averse to any remaining ties between you and your former boyfriend. When having sex with your husband, you shouldn’t think about your ex-boyfriend; otherwise, your life will be filled with darkness. 5. You need to plan your life carefully and manage your family finances wisely; otherwise, he will keep nagging you all day long, like an old woman. 6. Every day after he gets up, you are responsible for folding the blanket; otherwise, it will remain in a messy state on the bed when you return home at noon. 7. You need to remind him to wash his face, brush his teeth, and shave every day; he’s not very conscientious about these things. Of course, it’s fine as long as you don’t mind it. 8. He usually cooks the meals at home, but he never does the dishes; you’re the one who has to wash them. However, you can buy a dishwasher. 9. He never does any cleaning at home; you need to learn to do it. Otherwise, as long as you’re comfortable with it, your own home is fine. 10. You need to be a good cook, because his cooking skills are really poor. Every time guests come to our house, it’s me who cooks. He, being such a hospitable person, often brings his siblings and their families over as well. If you want to gain the approval of his family, I think it’s inevitable that you’ll have to learn how to do that. 11. During the hot weather, you need to wash the clothes he changes every day. Clothes for hot weather generally don’t require use of a washing machine. Of course, if you don’t want to wash them yourself, you can ask him to do it. However, over the past ten-odd years, I’ve never managed to train him to do this; I hope you can succeed in doing so. There is a washing machine for winter clothes. 12. He likes to have friends in other countries, whether they’re boyfriends or girlfriends. If he happens to meet another girlfriend, you need to be understanding; even a male pig can get infatuated! If one isn’t unfaithful, it’s just a lack of opportunity! It will depend on your skills at that time. 13. He visits the children occasionally; you need to be understanding! Moreover, you must pay me the monthly child support on time; otherwise, if it goes to court, it will be a loss of face for you! 14. During the three months each year when he takes care of his mother, you need to be tolerant of him, as he is very filial. You need to be patient, speak softly, and be thorough in your actions. 15. He is the youngest in the family, a child who has been spoiled by his parents; you have to put up with it, as he often gets angry over trivial things. 16. When he’s at home, the computer belongs to him; when he’s not here, you can do whatever you want. 17. You need to dress yourself up beautifully often; otherwise, he won’t even take you out. Although he is good-looking himself, he has high standards when it comes to women. 18. When he is not having success at work, you need to comfort him; otherwise, he might do something unconventional. 19. While eating, he must watch the news or festivals; no matter how interesting the TV dramas are at that time, you have to go along with him. 20. As for other things, I won’t say anything; you’ll have to figure it out on your own in the future. I'm tired too! The air outside is tempting!