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Not seeing one’s own child get married is a regret for parents

2012-03-27View Original

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Some children believe that “not getting married” is their own personal matter and has nothing to do with their parents. On the contrary, one of the biggest regrets for many elderly people in life is not being able to see their children get married. Marriage is indeed a private matter, but sometimes not getting married can be a \"selfish\" thing to do. Consider things from your parents’ perspective as well, and try to fulfill their regrets.
Reply #22012-03-27
No one wants to disappoint their parents, but that’s how things are – men have limited financial resources, while women have high standards!
Reply #32012-03-28
Everyone is like this! Poor economy! The rich get richer! The poor will only get poorer!
Reply #42012-03-28
Yes, yes, I completely agree with what was said above. Where can I get a house, a car, and tickets? ?
Reply #52012-03-28
In fact, the pressures of life are more important than getting married; if one cannot even meet their basic needs, then there is no foundation for marriage, haha
Reply #62012-03-28
It’s not about whether to get married or not; it can be done just by talking about it. . There are so many things to consider. It’s hard to find a partner, and in the future there’s no guarantee of having money for the baby’s formula. . Is there any?
Reply #72012-03-28
Parents have countless regrets: once you get married, they want grandchildren; even after having grandchildren, they still expect you to buy several houses, and more – 123456789..... By the time you’re busy addressing all their regrets, you’ll be dead too
Reply #82012-03-28
Hehe! But as for getting married and having children! It must be the parents’ greatest regret!
Reply #92012-03-28
It is a natural law that men should get married when they reach adulthood, and women as well. Going against this natural order does not lead to good outcomes. Marriage represents a stable state of adult life; when parents see that you have found stability, they feel relieved.
Reply #102012-03-28
I completely agree. When the time is right, everything will fall into place naturally. For the sake of one’s parents, one can simply find a partner or have a child casually, so that the parents won’t feel regretful; otherwise, one will carry that regret for a lifetime
Reply #112012-03-29
One lives for themselves, not to become the certain image that parents expect. In fact, sometimes parents themselves don’t know exactly what they want. Older people tend to be somewhat biased; if one goes along with everything they say, then what’s the point of living? One should not be a puppet of anyone, no matter who it is

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