Please give some advice: how to persuade stubborn people!

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I have a younger brother who dropped out of high school! I was far away and couldn’t stop it! Repeated pleas go unheard! Trapped at the construction site, unable to escape; working hard alongside my colleagues, toiling endlessly there without even getting paid! After much persuasion, I got him to go work for his aunt who is a manager, where he could take on a relaxed hauling job and find an opportunity to learn *operations. But after persevering for half a month, it slipped away! Ask for the reason? He said: I always feel uncomfortable living and working under someone else’s protection! One must rely on one’s own efforts to succeed! I said: Without a degree or skills, what do you rely on? A university diploma and a recommendation from a leader are merely opportunities given to you; how well you do in the future still depends on your own efforts! Mud cannot be made to stand upright; gold will always shine! The reason is simply that they won’t listen! In one sentence: I will rely on my own efforts! He came to visit us recently, and after much persuasion, I got him to sign up for a forklift driver’s license course! I hope to introduce him to our company through technology so he can find a job there! Unfortunately, our company is laying off employees, so it’s difficult to find new people to fill the positions! It didn’t work out, and he went back to his hometown! With a forklift license, I found a job that involves hard work, with endless overtime! No insurance, no contract! It just so happens that we currently have a vacancy for a forklift driver in my company, and I pleaded with my supervisor hard to give me a chance! Unfortunately, when I tried to get in touch with him, he said he was fine and didn’t want to come! Same salary, with contributions to social insurance and housing fund; it’s a legitimate large company that offers contracts! Aren’t you coming? Aren’t you coming? ? ? ? ? ! ! ! I’m furious! The reason given to me: I don’t want to part with my friends! They’re all a bunch of bad company! As the saying goes, you become what kind of person is around you! They’re all lazy people who dropped out of middle school – how can there be any talk of family bonds or friendship? I’m your own sister; would I do you any harm? Since you’re here, do I not need to put in much effort taking care of you? Do you think it’s worthless of me to use my financial and material resources to help you? Both parents are here; isn’t it good for the whole family to live together? The feng shui is excellent; it would be great to get married and have children here! I don’t know how to say it all!