How should parents supervise their children to ensure proper oversight?

:Curse: You need to swim together with your child when they are swimming, and you should be there with them while they are playing; you also don’t have to worry about them being taken away by someone else: curse:

This post was last edited by Thank goodness you're here on 2015-6-15 08:50. Xiaohong, it’s obvious at a glance that you don’t have any children yet. :victory: Do your children swim in shallow water areas? Can adults float there? Especially the children's area. :Curse: Do you have that much energy to keep an eye on them while they’re playing? When setting off, he/she insists on dragging you along to play. You know, once you have kids, your wife will definitely have to take care of them. Female sailors, if you see this, never marry such a guy.

There are more women who take care of children; even mothers aren’t at ease when it’s men who look after them, don’t you think?

Does carrying more mean having to take on more responsibility? After feeding her for years, even decades, and suddenly encountering some trouble, does he still want to blame the woman?

Moderator Wang, it shouldn’t be **too strong, or it will scare people away.

There are now classes specifically designed to teach children how to swim; if possible, one can send their child to attend such training first. From now on, if the child wants to swim, they will have to go to an indoor swimming pool, one with dedicated security personnel watching over them; someone can accompany them there, and it’s okay if they get a little distracted. It is shameful to shift the responsibility of taking care of children to one’s wife; nowadays both men and women work to support their children, so why should someone else bear more of the burden? Unless one is powerful enough to support an entire family on their own and thus have to deal with fewer household matters.

Those that run away are the timid; it’s better without them. ;P Tell me, what do you think constitutes proper regulation? As long as nothing goes wrong, any way of handling it is fine; but once something does go wrong, people start pointing fingers and criticizing?

Easter egg for crushing watermelons: The problem is that kids are naughty; once they can swim, they want to run around everywhere. A recent report described a situation where the mother was using her phone; when she saw her son go to the bathroom, she ignored him. After a while, not seeing the child, she rushed into the bathroom to look for him, but couldn’t find him. She searched back and forth for almost 5 minutes before discovering the child’s body had been pulled out of the deep water. Although there were nurses among the swimmers who provided first aid and called 120, it was already too late. Although both parties are at fault in this incident, what sense does it make for the mother to worry about distinguishing the degree of responsibility or determining the amount of compensation? Yesterday, my wife told me about a mother who was with her two children; the older one ran to the top of the indoor amusement park, and the mother couldn’t find her, becoming so worried that she almost cried. She kept calling for the child, who was responding as well (in a voice so soft that only she could hear it), but they just couldn’t find the child. In the end, it was her wife who showed her, and only then did the mother feel relieved. It’s hassle-free to have a well-behaved child; but how much energy does it take to deal with a naughty child? But isn’t being mischievous children’s natural instinct? When it comes to taking care of children, most dads are not as good at it as moms. Nowadays, there are also more mothers who work full-time; mothers have a clear idea of how to take care of the children, while dads might feel that their approach is not sufficient.

Saying that a child is naughty and uncontrollable means they haven’t been taught properly; parents should prioritize safety awareness when teaching their children. You can’t shirk responsibility by saying that a child’s misbehavior is just in their nature. I see that parents abroad supervise their children very little, while in China the more parents cater to their children, the less capable those children become of taking care of themselves.

The Easter egg of smashing watermelons – do you also lock up the room abroad? Nothing is absolute; the same thing may not be a problem abroad, and you might still have it there. Children don’t fight randomly either, but what about in China? If you don’t fight, you’ll lose; and even if you don’t fight, what if the other party’s parents encourage their children to attack you?