The sharpest weapon of family affection
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One evening, with nothing better to do, I watched the show \"Transformation Program\" on Mango TV. I initially just watched it casually, but found it quite interesting. The episode in question was one where Lin Yilun’s son took part in the program. There was a teenage boy who felt neglected, and he had intense conflicts with his mother, who was busy with her career. The boy used family bonds as a weapon, hurting his mother’s heart deeply each time; all the mother could do was cry, yet she never gave up. In fact, many similar stories follow this pattern – the hurt inflicted among family members often happens without any restraint, with the ‘sword of family bonds’ being sharpened again and again and used to strike at the most vulnerable points, causing the people we love the most pain and disappointment. It’s better to use family bonds as a source of warmth, just as they were meant to be
Therefore, family education is extremely important; one must not allow children to lack essential aspects in their development. Otherwise, when they grow up, all the missed opportunities will need to be made up for, which places even greater demands on parents.
Every time, the sword of family ties is sharpened and inserted precisely into the most vulnerable points, causing the ones we love the most pain and disappointment. It’s better to use family bonds as a link, returning to their original warm and pleasant nature； Well said. . . . . . . . . . . . .
Gentle guidance for children is important, but health and happiness are even more crucial!
Harm between family members is often committed without any restraint; every time, it sharpens the sword of familial relationships and inserts it precisely into their most vulnerable points... If things reach such a stage, it’s truly disheartening – family education is indeed very difficult. In many cases, those involved are the ones who are confused; the logic is clear, but implementation is difficult.
When this happens, shouldn’t parents reflect on their own mistakes? If they haven’t given what is due, why do they expect something in return?
It’s not that no effort is put in; parents usually give a lot for their children. It’s possible, though, that the way in which they give is flawed, with too much emphasis on material things
Well, teenagers with problems often come from problematic families as well
There are indeed problems, but I just think what the editor said makes sense – family bonds should not be used as a weapon to hurt those we love. If we understand this principle, then many problems might actually cease to be problems
Well, everyone understands the logic behind it; most things related to others can only temporarily evoke our awareness. Sometimes, things develop in that direction – there’s nothing we can do about it. There are causes and effects, and it’s difficult for thoughts to influence people’s actions. It’s a strange phenomenon: everyone knows it’s bad, yet everyone still does it! Why? There must be a reason
Yes, it’s exactly the same principle you mentioned, especially the last one!