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This post was last edited by cflt111 on 2016-1-15 at 10:10. The nanny is taking care of the baby at home. With the New Year approaching, we were looking forward to going back home happily; we would go out for a short time over the weekend and then return. However, the hair around the baby’s ears on both sides had disappeared, and in their place were pits left by scissors – a messy and unsightly sight. I asked why we need to cut the child’s hair; it looks so ugly. Why take them along like that during the New Year? The aunt said it’s for my own good, as my hair has grown long. But I have an electric trimmer at home; the aunt didn’t even ask. What if I use scissors and cut into the flesh? The child is only 8 months old. Several days have passed since it happened, and I no longer want to talk about it. Auntie started talking about it again today, saying I’m making a big deal out of nothing – it’s just a child’s hair; what’s the big deal? But the thing that bothers me the most is why she didn’t ask me if I wanted it cut My hair isn’t long at all; it doesn’t even reach my ears. It hasn’t grown much since it was shaved off during the postpartum period. After cutting my hair, they said that since the hair can’t be restored anyway, it’s pointless, and they were quite arrogant. Everyone, tell me, what would you do if you were in my position? I stop producing milk whenever I get angry. I don’t want to get angry either, but the old woman keeps nagging, always saying it’s my fault. It breaks my heart just to think about it.
You can talk to the person in charge of the housekeeping service; they must be very annoyed as well. The old lady shouldn’t say that to you either; go find your husband.
Why not just change to another nanny? Isn’t it like spending money on bringing trouble upon oneself?
Hehe, it’s great to see the mother tiger showing her strength. Gagaga – just use a hair dryer to fix it for the kid, and it’ll be done, right?
Fire the nanny and buy a machine auntie
Look at my pig’s head – it’s cut out nicely, isn’t it?
This post was last edited by cflt111 on 2016-1-15 at 10:51. You should put yourself in her shoes and realize that the nanny has good intentions too – no one wants to cut the child’s hair in that way. Talk to the nanny and ask her not to do it again, and to let you know in advance. My brother hired a maternity nurse for a month; she took care of my niece throughout that time. One day, my niece fell accidentally, and the maternity nurse was even more worried and upset than I was. Caring for children is not easy, and it’s best to get along harmoniously. If you treat her well, she will truly take good care of your child~~
Why not raise one’s own children by oneself? How dare they complain here!
That’s a bit much; it was meant as a kind gesture. Don’t be so pretentious; this is within acceptable limits.
In the OP’s eyes, nannies are inferior.