【Sea and River Chat】Seven parts help, three parts complaint
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Someone asked you for help, expecting you to provide full assistance, but you only helped to a degree of seven; as a result, that person felt you were not loyal, and instead of being grateful, they thought you owed them three more units of help. Many human grievances stem from this.
That’s why there is the saying 【help to the end】.
If one does their best and can only provide help worth seven points, yet the other party is still dissatisfied, then it’s better not to offer such help at all
It’s important to choose friends wisely; when helping, it’s sufficient to have a clear conscience!
The other party should be grateful, even if it’s just a small help； I should feel guilty for not trying hard enough.