Is it a good idea to change jobs when getting married?
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As the title suggests, I’m getting married in October, but my current job is truly heartbreaking. In order to go home, I ended up at this so-called central state-owned enterprise. I never expected that a small company with just 200 employees could be plagued by so many problems. The senior managers keep suppressing each other, the middle managers are extremely annoying, and there are no petrochemical industries nearby, so I’ve been working here for over a year now. Life is now basically stable, and I’ve also found a wife. This job is the most annoying of all. If I don’t work here, I might end up leaving the oil industry; I’ll consider looking for a job in the city and will take it if the salary is good enough. What do you all think?
Sure, work is just part of life. Not all of them. Do the work you like
Finding a new employer isn’t a bad idea, is it? Go ahead!
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The pressure is too much. I thought I could hold on a little longer, get through the marriage. My family also values jobs in state-owned enterprises very much and holds superstitious views toward private enterprises. I don’t want it to be too tight either. Headache.
I’ve worked in oil refining for a few years; now I’m only good at that. There are no such jobs nearby, so I have to change careers.
It would be great if leaders were so easy to deal with. They all got in through connections; those who are not valued elsewhere are sent here to show off their power as officials.
The original poster might not have been graduated for very long; in fact, political struggles exist in every organization or company, and there are always various frustrations one has to deal with wherever one goes. *I’m used to it; just keep a positive mindset
It’s fine if there’s only one person playing, but I’m worried if several people play together – then no one’s decision will be respected. Are you sure your supervisor doesn’t know your login UID? Be careful; someone might report you. :handshake
I came to this company just to go home. I used to be very motivated at work, but now, haha
Hehe, both the top and bottom parts were played with together. Those who really work hard are always bullied; others put them in difficult situations.