Without a wife, no children, and my family member suffering from uremia – what do I have to strive for?
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I live each day in a state of emptiness and busywork; I used to carry out my duties carefully and work diligently, but now I have no motivation or drive left. The boss, on the other hand, enjoys drinking, gambling, and other such things, and I don’t get along with people who engage in those activities. I also don’t want to learn those habits. Now I just go through the days in a daze.
Title and content................There are many lovely flowers among the plants on land and in water. Jin’s Tao Yuanming had a special fondness for chrysanthemums ； Since the Li Tang dynasty, people have held peonies in high esteem ； I particularly admire the lotus for emerging from the mud yet remaining untainted; it is washed in clear water without becoming coquettish. Its stem is straight both inside and out, with no tendrils or branches. Its fragrance grows stronger as it spreads, and it stands gracefully and quietly, allowing one to admire it from afar without daring to touch it. I consider the chrysanthemum to be the reclusive among flowers ； Peony, the flower of prosperity ； The lotus is the gentleman among flowers. Ugh! Love for chrysanthemums is rarely heard of after the pottery era ； Who shares my love for lotuses? ； The love for peonies is truly widespread.
Not wasting oneself means having self-control; not learning anything means lacking ambition. The poster has a dual personality
If it really is as the original poster says, many people will find it difficult to keep things under control; after all, the pressure is too great, and they even have to face some very serious situations. This isn’t something that happens in an instant, but rather over a fairly long period of time. Sometimes, complaining a little is also a way of releasing stress. Still, specific problems need to be addressed
Yes, it’s hard to stay calm when facing such great pressure
Life is full of hardships; the poster should also try to be more open-minded
First, take some time to reflect on what kind of life you want to lead; set goals for yourself and work towards them. Gradually, you will find that your life becomes more fulfilling and you experience a sense of achievement
I guess everyone born as a human has to face all kinds of difficulties... Keep it up, OP!
People sometimes lose motivation and end up like this; I was in that situation for a while as well. But things get much better when there’s plenty to do at work. LZ is probably still young – young people should have drive, potential, and a bright future ahead of them
I hope you’ll talk more with the original poster and share your experience.
A similar issue was discussed in a commentary in the Youth Daily a few days ago. One still needs to adapt to Chinese culture; when there are issues, it’s best to consult experienced and reliable senior colleagues. There are hardly any people who like to complain and still gain recognition from their classmates or colleagues.